For those of you who do MUEP/UMEP maths or are in university, you'll probably know this, its probably too advanced for high school level, but its basically a way of understanding limits better
You know how basically when you find a limit, you're usually taught to "sub it in" and that will give you the value of the limit, this actually works because of a concept known as the "epsilon-delta proof"
This basically states that as we restrict x to being within delta units of what we are approaching, then because of that restriction, f(x) becomes restricted to being within epsilon units of L.
Basically all your Limit Theorems are based on Epsilon Delta proofs, also, for now, i'd say just accept the concept of a derivative, once you reach applications of differentiation, you'll understand a lot more, if now, you could always try reading Pre-Calculus or Calculus I books from uni, which might explain it better (: - high school maths tends to simplify things a bit (: