Love this thread idea
Here are my (almost) life stories!
Subjects I almost took-
Visual Arts (Year 10). I did Visual Arts in Year 9 as one of my elective choices but had a teacher who I constantly was butting heads with which made me not want to pursue it in Year 10. I decided to do Philosophy instead for Year 10 (it was the first year the subject was running too so it was particularly exciting) and I really enjoyed it. I ended up taking Visual Arts for Year 11 and Year 12 though, funnily enough because of my Philosophy teacher. He said that if I wanted to continue developing my critical thinking skills and exploring important social and cultural issues, Visual Arts was the place to do it. It sure was
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Italian Beginners (Year 11/12). I really wanted to study a language in senior high school and was already learning basic Italian because of my classical singing course. It was offered at my school but we didn't have the numbers for a class to run so I did Modern History in substitute for it which I ended up liking and doing well in
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Mathematics Advanced (Year 12). I discovered about halfway through high school that I was really not fond of maths. I didn't enjoy it, my grades were declining assessment to assessment and my teachers, although were nice, failed to motivate me or give me an incentive to continue pursuing it. Year 11 was the last time I could bear and I decided to drop the subject in order to pick up Extension 2 English instead. I received a lot of criticism from people around me for it, especially my dad who when he was in school was unable to pursue Mathematics in tertiary education due to financial reasons. Abandoning 2 unit Maths meant that I had so much more to prove to people, and to myself, but eventually, people started to realise that me dropping it was the smarter move all along. If I had kept it, I would have been miserable, resentful and dissatisfied. It was the best decision I made as a young adult
Pathways I almost took
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Speech Pathology. Since I'm a singer, I have been always fascinated by the voice. I asked my tutor for advice on what I should do after high school and she was in her final year of Speech Path at the time. She highly recommended it and told me to have a look into it. I had a very brief period where I was really interested in pursuing it but I ended up deciding that I wasn't committed to the idea of it long term.
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English/History Education. I was told by a lot of people that I needed a backup plan if I was going to aim for Music Ed at the Con. At the time, I was really insecure and was convinced that I wasn't going to be able to make it into such a competitive university. I figured "well, if I can't teach music, I guess I wouldn't mind teaching English or History." I really enjoyed English in school, I have a lifelong love for literature and I knew that I was going to be more than likely tutoring English after my HSC than Music so that's how this pathway was formed. If it wasn't for my music teachers at school and my private singing teacher, I wouldn't have been confident enough to follow my dreams. I think I would have enjoyed teaching English but I also know that my love for music is much stronger and I probably would have ended up winding to my current path anyway.
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Musical Theatre (Performance). I suppose this counts because I technically have yet to pursue it but I was looking at studying a musical theatre degree at the Brisbane Academy run by Harvest Rain. I was tossing up between this and Music Ed because I had passion for both equally. I decided to apply for the Con instead to do Music Ed first since it's a four-year degree and I am still living with my family. I will, unless something changes, go for this one-year intensive degree once I graduate
Jobs I almost accepted
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Private tutoring jobs. I have rejected multiple private tutoring offers because of a personal promise to myself to prioritise myself. Juggling full time uni, two jobs and a bunch of other extra-curricular activities has been a challenge and I have slowly become better at kindly declining requests for the long term benefit of my wellbeing. I find working for Tutesmart really flexible and easy to manage amongst the rest of my commitments so I plan to keep it like this for a while
Keen to hear what other people's stories are