I lol'd
here's a few things that have been conveniently left out
- I have promised [on several occasions] that I will return them, except I am currently in my exams period, and I leave for china pretty much AS SOON AS exams finish, so it'll be an unnecessary burden on me to have to rush around to return the notes
- I have been accused of being a thief, a bastard, a dipshit, and a cunt. It is my understanding that when you want someone else to do something, a little respect is given?
- This is AFTER the events of last night [or was it the night before] when I explained to her that I intended to return things to her ASAP, and had she not been a haggering nagging <expletive>, i would have been more than happy to go out of my way to return it to her
- This is AFTER about a month of no contact, immediately afterwards I was accused of not returning it [and withholding without intention of returning it...? see first point] when I had no prior knowledge of her wanting her notes back immediately, which I easily could have done when MUEP classes were still on
- The PMs immediately prior to the one which I was quoted in [earlier in the thread, and without permission, mind you... code of conduct?] received by me was abrupt and included calling me a "dipshit"... I believe any sensible person would choose to not reveal address to those kind of messages
to clarify a few more things:
- caramel is in first year uni, and afaik she no longer undertake any linguistic studies
- the notebook was lent originally with "take as long as you like", and at that point I have promised "I'll return after exams" [which I still am intending to]
- the reason this conflict is in place is because I have not given a set date by which the book will be returned. the closest post office takes me at least an hour to get to [one way], car transport is also out of the option.
so guilt-trip me all you like, I am doing what I am capable of in light of higher priorities. So really, what's all the fretting about?
oh, and, yes, it is perfectly within her rights to ask for it back, and for the nth time, i will return it.
but when i get harrassed about it every day, i tend to ignore it and not respond, and I'm sure that's understandable.
oops, said too much.