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Title: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: squance on March 14, 2008, 09:43:59 pm
HEy everyone!  :)

I need advice....

I've been to uni for like about two weeks now and well...I have developed a crush on this person. I always look out for him in my lectures...he's sat next to me on some occassions!!! :smitten: :smitten:
 
Yeah, I've spoken to him on many occassions before and well, I feel awkward around him...I also feel that I'm running out of words everytiime I talk to him....he makes my heart flutter and my mind goes blank....

I think I've already dropped enough hints for him already but to me, it looks like he;s not responding.

I don't know...he's like the hottest thing I've ever seen....and I so love his personality...he acts sooo cute!!!..

I was just wondering, how do you go about showing your crush that you care (without explicitly saying to them that you like them because that would just be bad and if I did that, he might avoid me forever..NOOOOO)...

Yeah...some advice and hints on how to go about this would be muchly appreciated.  :)

Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: ed_saifa on March 14, 2008, 09:56:37 pm
well two weeks is pretty fast.
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: Matt The Rat on March 14, 2008, 10:01:39 pm
Get a group of mates together to head out to the pub, pool hall, etc and then ask if he wants to come too.
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: Matt89 on March 14, 2008, 10:14:18 pm
Get a group of mates together to head out to the pub, pool hall, etc and then ask if he wants to come too.

Or just hang out somewhere during one of your breaks. Pretty much everyone i have met at uni i got to know during breaks
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: droodles on March 14, 2008, 10:31:50 pm
i smell the dawn of a Love and Relationships sub forum



Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: enwiabe on March 14, 2008, 10:43:35 pm
I was going to... but you jinxed it.
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: killerkiller on March 15, 2008, 12:23:11 am
kidnap him and put him in a sac, then continuously bash the sac until he speaks words of love to you, always works for me, guys and girls ;)
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: Collin Li on March 15, 2008, 12:37:42 am
kidnap him and put him in a sac, then continuously bash the sac until he speaks words of love to you, always works for me, guys and girls ;)

You're the one she likes.

Don't worry, at least you'll feel all soft after getting tenderised.
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: Matt89 on March 15, 2008, 12:47:20 am
kidnap him and put him in a sac, then continuously bash the sac until he speaks words of love to you, always works for me, guys and girls ;)

The VCE system is affecting peoples ability to distinguish between a sack and a SAC
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: AppleXY on March 15, 2008, 09:00:34 am
looool. I refer to sacs as BallSACS. :P


Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: Odette on March 15, 2008, 12:39:10 pm
Ok well I'll try to give you some advice here squance, um as others have mentioned a good way get him to know you better would be to start off by possibly having lunch or something together with a group of friends, and then maybe going out on the weekends, and then i'm sure he'll get the message sooner or later.. You don't want to come across as too desperate or something, if you cant be together at least be friends :) lol. Hope that helps a little. 
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: squance on March 15, 2008, 02:34:15 pm
Thanks!!!
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: Mao on March 15, 2008, 09:51:05 pm
you're at uni, so what's better than after a lecture (when he sits next to you), ask him if he wants to go for coffee ;D

coffee always works :P
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: Collin Li on March 15, 2008, 11:23:53 pm
Yeah, I first had lunch with my to-be-girlfriend at union house. It was romantic... LOL, j/k, but it was heaps of fun :)
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: droodles on March 16, 2008, 12:43:42 am
squance why dont u tell ahmad that u feel this way? i mean theres no point going up in the clouds about it
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: disha2711 on March 16, 2008, 08:24:27 am
heya..!
i reckon at the moment the best thing to do is ask him for help in your subjects even if you know everything, ask him a particular Q or if u guys r both in da same lecture n da lecturer is saying something jus ask him wths he sayin? try 2 speak 2 him openly and be yourself n den once you start off that way im sure all the other advices about the groups n breaks n all wil come in handy..!
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: Collin Li on March 16, 2008, 09:30:39 am
I was just wondering, how do you go about showing your crush that you care (without explicitly saying to them that you like them because that would just be bad and if I did that, he might avoid me forever..NOOOOO)...

Can't let fear get in the way of being courageous. That said, however, explicitly saying it might not be the best option :)
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: Mao on March 16, 2008, 01:33:25 pm
just go for coffee, then "unconsciously" rest your hands on his, or something :P

"its a date" xD

ps do you know if he's already committed?
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: squance on March 16, 2008, 05:30:17 pm
squance why dont u tell ahmad that u feel this way? i mean theres no point going up in the clouds about it

dude...it ain't ahmad....
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: brendan on March 16, 2008, 06:24:13 pm
you're at uni, so what's better than after a lecture (when he sits next to you), ask him if he wants to go for coffee ;D

coffee always works :P
lol or an ice cream since its gonna be 39C 2morrow.
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: brendan on March 16, 2008, 06:25:55 pm
That said, however, explicitly saying it might not be the best option :)

"treat em mean to keep em keen" xD
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: killerkiller on March 16, 2008, 07:09:46 pm
Im a psychic and im guessing this boy does engineering?? And his name involves Mar sumthin yeH?
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: droodles on March 16, 2008, 07:17:05 pm
Im a psychic and im guessing this boy does engineering?? And his name involves Mar sumthin yeH?
no you aren't you are the one sitting behind her in class, tracing her with your eyes. freak
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: killerkiller on March 16, 2008, 07:26:35 pm
Im a psychic and im guessing this boy does engineering?? And his name involves Mar sumthin yeH?
no you aren't you are the one sitting behind her in class, tracing her with your eyes. freak

and i guess u must be the one sitting behind me, watching my every move ever so closely and in such detail u no exactly how i am tracing with my eyes...FREAK!
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: Collin Li on March 16, 2008, 07:29:39 pm
Im a psychic and im guessing this boy does engineering?? And his name involves Mar sumthin yeH?
no you aren't you are the one sitting behind her in class, tracing her with your eyes. freak

and i guess u must be the one sitting behind me, watching my every move ever so closely and in such detail u no exactly how i am tracing with my eyes...FREAK!

That was so 7:17 PM.
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: killerkiller on March 16, 2008, 07:40:45 pm
lol wtf stop playing with time douche bags
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: midas_touch on March 16, 2008, 08:20:00 pm
squance why dont u tell ahmad that u feel this way? i mean theres no point going up in the clouds about it

Ahmad is in a pretty stable relationship with Neobeo :P.
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: Fitness on March 16, 2008, 09:15:11 pm
TELL HIM TO COME TO MY PARTY WITH YOU!
YOU CAN MEET ME AND DROODLES ROFL
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: Rietie on March 16, 2008, 09:36:06 pm
Im a psychic and im guessing this boy does engineering?? And his name involves Mar sumthin yeH?
no you aren't you are the one sitting behind her in class, tracing her with your eyes. freak

and i guess u must be the one sitting behind me, watching my every move ever so closely and in such detail u no exactly how i am tracing with my eyes...FREAK!

That was so 7:17 PM.


Lol. That comment sounded like a retort from a girl. Teehee. A really weak retort. :)
Title: Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
Post by: droodles on March 18, 2008, 04:18:48 pm
TELL HIM TO COME TO MY PARTY WITH YOU!
YOU CAN MEET ME AND DROODLES ROFL
hahahahahahahah