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General Discussion => General Discussion Boards => Lifestyle and Entertainment => Topic started by: shonakennedy on December 24, 2008, 03:58:48 am
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so its 4am and i cant sleep because i found out that my ex has slept with someone not even an hour after he broke up with me. mind you, i find this out after months of him swearing he didnt do it. oh and also, there was a rumor that he slept with his friend's ex a while back (just after we broke up again) and this had proved to be true also. and just to make matters worse, there is another one in amongst that too. i feel so pathetic. i seriously dont know how im going to get over this. i feel used and abused. he thought it was so funny to taunt me and tell me that it was all my fault. gahhh. what can i do?
why im posting this on vn, i will never know. i need to vent my anger. and i need help from people that dont know me. all ive heard from a friend is that im too good for him and it shouldnt bother me cos it was after we broke up blah blah. but the point is that this has upset me. and i cant deal with it. im crushed. how can i move on?
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wow.
all ı can say ıs that............
hıs a gun !!!!
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Sweetie, just forget about that loser, if he can't see how special you are then he isn't worth it. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing that you're hurt or upset, perhaps try to do something like going out with friends or something to cheer you up oh and you might like to come to the VN meet up ^_^, to get your mind off things. I'd say to get even with him, but it wont help at all, so don't bother with that. Just give it time, take a break from being with someone, and then when you least expect it someone great will come along. Remember, no guy like your ex deserves to get upset over, he's a loser and will soon come to realise he lost a great girl.
Hope that helps :)
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pffffft exes are jerks regardless
when i broke up with my ex of a year, he told me he was in love with someone else the whole time
guys suck ;)
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id like to post something, but i might get slammed for it ^.^
like last time :(
are you finding it hard to get over him ?
or do you think you'll get over him soonish?
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thanks guys. i guess i was over him. but hearing all that and the abuse that follows.... god i took it all to heart. im trying to hard to not think about it. but its awful. he lied to me for so long. bahh. why will you get slammed dusty?
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That sucks :( The guy's a scumbag, and not worth another minute of your time. You just gotta take your mind off it all and erase him from your mind since this is unforgivable.
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thanks guys. i guess i was over him. but hearing all that and the abuse that follows.... god i took it all to heart. im trying to hard to not think about it. but its awful. he lied to me for so long. bahh. why will you get slammed dusty?
Yeah I know it's hard at first, but as they say time is a healer. It'll take time to get over it, but when you do, you'll ask yourself why did I go out with him in the first place? :P and why did it take so long to get over him? You just need to focus on something else in the meantime, I'm sure there are plenty of things to keep you occupied... and if anger is an issue, you could try something like karate... it's a good way to release your anger or stress :) Or opt for something more relaxing like... meditation or yoga :P
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thanks guys. i guess i was over him. but hearing all that and the abuse that follows.... god i took it all to heart. im trying to hard to not think about it. but its awful. he lied to me for so long. bahh. why will you get slammed dusty?
coz last time i talked about my ex...
i was releasing my sadness... (U)
i got attacked :(
*sniffles*
its christmas, and all i want for christmas is him :(
I FEEL A SONG COMING ON :D
** I Dont Want Alot For Christmas,
I Just Want You For My Own,
More Then You Will Ever Know
Baby Make my Wish Come True
.... All I Want For Christmas Is You**
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how do u even get a gf?...its pretty difficult work...i reckon harder than VCE
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how do u even get a gf?...its pretty difficult work...i reckon harder than VCE
Coming to this site is a start :P Just ask around and you'll see what I mean :P
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how do u even get a gf?...its pretty difficult work...i reckon harder than VCE
Coming to this site is a start :P Just ask around and you'll see what I mean :P
hmm....if i ever had a gf id never cheat on her...im a nice guy...no seriously....i neva have fights
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how do u even get a gf?...its pretty difficult work...i reckon harder than VCE
Coming to this site is a start :P Just ask around and you'll see what I mean :P
hmm....if i ever had a gf id never cheat on her...im a nice guy...no seriously....i neva have fights
LOOOOL
you sound like me and my ex. for the first 6 minths and then i started living with him...
and then parents go "RAWR!"
and we go "AHHHHH"
and say things we dont mean :(
and then we make up, and then its a cycle... and eventually you lose your forever :-[
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oh the perils of life. i wish i could go into detail about all this cos its really confusing and deeper than anypne could imagine. but no point rly cos it wont make it go away. and you guys are probably over my sooking. i need to take my mind off it. hmmm. there is no karate around here. damn. what to do.
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And then there are the ones who are way too nice for their own good! My ex used to give me flowers, chocolates... You name it, he had probably given it to me. The problem was just that, he was too nice. I guess I like guys who have an edge and aren't afraid to yell at me (he didn't yell at me once :S). In the end, I decided that having this almost robot-like guy who constantly delivered things to my house was enough. I don't really miss it; the chocolates made me fat, and the flowers died... Meh...
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Ouch, there are plenty of girls that would envy having a really nice guy like the one you described.
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I guess nice guys aren't my forte? :P (Bad boys FTW!)
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Well your choices are pretty much unlimited then. If you want to be treated like a piece of meat, then go knock yourself out.
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Well your choices are pretty much unlimited then. If you want to be treated like a piece of meat, then go knock yourself out.
lol, hold on. Thinking her bf was "too nice" doesn't imply she wants to go out with a dick. Maybe happy meant she would like her boyfriend to be nice, but for that not to be the only good thing to be said about him.
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You can be nice and still have conflicts/disagreements, its totally normal for this to happen. But I cannot see why one would want to be yelled at, you can easily deal with such instances by simply just talking.....
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yeah, I agree with you there actually, wanting to be yelled at is a bit curious
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Being yelled at/smacked/forced and generally dominated can be linked to one type of fetish.
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yeah, I agree with you there actually, wanting to be yelled at is a bit curious
Actually a bit more than that, try attention seeking.
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how do u even get a gf?...its pretty difficult work...i reckon harder than VCE
Coming to this site is a start :P Just ask around and you'll see what I mean :P
hmm....if i ever had a gf id never cheat on her...im a nice guy...no seriously....i neva have fights
same lol
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Being yelled at/smacked/forced and generally dominated can be linked to one type of fetish.
ahah good point
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Yeah, srsly, anyone looking for a gf/bf... I'm seriously considering renaming VCENotes.com to VCENotesandDating.com :P There's been like 6 couplings on the site so far. LOL.
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Yeah, srsly, anyone looking for a gf/bf... I'm seriously considering renaming VCENotes.com to VCENotesandDating.com :P There's been like 6 couplings on the site so far. LOL.
I thought there were only two types? Spin-Spin and Spin-Orbit. Did you come up with the other four?
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Eddy, epic fail. :P
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You don't have to be modest, looks like you have revolutionised quantum mechanics :D
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And then there are the ones who are way too nice for their own good! My ex used to give me flowers, chocolates... You name it, he had probably given it to me. The problem was just that, he was too nice. I guess I like guys who have an edge and aren't afraid to yell at me (he didn't yell at me once :S). In the end, I decided that having this almost robot-like guy who constantly delivered things to my house was enough. I don't really miss it; the chocolates made me fat, and the flowers died... Meh...
Hm... no one is nice for no reason... everyone has a hidden agenda...
Yelling at you? If a guy yelled at me I'd slap him, no way will I ever let a guy yell at me and get away with it. Next thing you know you'd want him to hit you? :o *cough* bondage *cough* Kidding lol.
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how do u even get a gf?...its pretty difficult work...i reckon harder than VCE
Coming to this site is a start :P Just ask around and you'll see what I mean :P
hay Hay,
Youve stolen my tactics.
God damn ıt, Now everyone knows what kınd of sexy beast ı am
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And then there are the ones who are way too nice for their own good! My ex used to give me flowers, chocolates... You name it, he had probably given it to me. The problem was just that, he was too nice. I guess I like guys who have an edge and aren't afraid to yell at me (he didn't yell at me once :S). In the end, I decided that having this almost robot-like guy who constantly delivered things to my house was enough. I don't really miss it; the chocolates made me fat, and the flowers died... Meh...
Hm... no one is nice for no reason... everyone has a hidden agenda...
Yelling at you? If a guy yelled at me I'd slap him, no way will I ever let a guy yell at me and get away with it. Next thing you know you'd want him to hit you? :o *cough* bondage *cough* Kidding lol.
Well, I've known what it's been like to be yelled at from others (but not this guy...). Like, my parents and stuff yell at me like no tomorrow, but when I met this guy; he was too nice... And he was basically in all my classes at school, so I couldn't avoid him (not that I wanted to), but he kept wanting to buy these things to me and we never have arguments. Isn't it only natural to have fights when you're in a relationship after all? :P
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And then there are the ones who are way too nice for their own good! My ex used to give me flowers, chocolates... You name it, he had probably given it to me. The problem was just that, he was too nice. I guess I like guys who have an edge and aren't afraid to yell at me (he didn't yell at me once :S). In the end, I decided that having this almost robot-like guy who constantly delivered things to my house was enough. I don't really miss it; the chocolates made me fat, and the flowers died... Meh...
Hm... no one is nice for no reason... everyone has a hidden agenda...
Yelling at you? If a guy yelled at me I'd slap him, no way will I ever let a guy yell at me and get away with it. Next thing you know you'd want him to hit you? :o *cough* bondage *cough* Kidding lol.
Well, I've known what it's been like to be yelled at from others (but not this guy...). Like, my parents and stuff yell at me like no tomorrow, but when I met this guy; he was too nice... And he was basically in all my classes at school, so I couldn't avoid him (not that I wanted to), but he kept wanting to buy these things to me and we never have arguments. Isn't it only natural to have fights when you're in a relationship after all? :P
You don't anticipate them though, plus fighting is only one way of dealing with issues.
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And then there are the ones who are way too nice for their own good! My ex used to give me flowers, chocolates... You name it, he had probably given it to me. The problem was just that, he was too nice. I guess I like guys who have an edge and aren't afraid to yell at me (he didn't yell at me once :S). In the end, I decided that having this almost robot-like guy who constantly delivered things to my house was enough. I don't really miss it; the chocolates made me fat, and the flowers died... Meh...
Hm... no one is nice for no reason... everyone has a hidden agenda...
Yelling at you? If a guy yelled at me I'd slap him, no way will I ever let a guy yell at me and get away with it. Next thing you know you'd want him to hit you? :o *cough* bondage *cough* Kidding lol.
Well, I've known what it's been like to be yelled at from others (but not this guy...). Like, my parents and stuff yell at me like no tomorrow, but when I met this guy; he was too nice... And he was basically in all my classes at school, so I couldn't avoid him (not that I wanted to), but he kept wanting to buy these things to me and we never have arguments. Isn't it only natural to have fights when you're in a relationship after all? :P
Just because everyone else has fights in their relationships, doesn't mean you have to... and as midas mentioned, there are other ways of dealing with an issue. Don't think about wanting fights... trust me you don't want an abusive boyfriend. ;D
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And then there are the ones who are way too nice for their own good! My ex used to give me flowers, chocolates... You name it, he had probably given it to me. The problem was just that, he was too nice. I guess I like guys who have an edge and aren't afraid to yell at me (he didn't yell at me once :S). In the end, I decided that having this almost robot-like guy who constantly delivered things to my house was enough. I don't really miss it; the chocolates made me fat, and the flowers died... Meh...
Hm... no one is nice for no reason... everyone has a hidden agenda...
Yelling at you? If a guy yelled at me I'd slap him, no way will I ever let a guy yell at me and get away with it. Next thing you know you'd want him to hit you? :o *cough* bondage *cough* Kidding lol.
Well, I've known what it's been like to be yelled at from others (but not this guy...). Like, my parents and stuff yell at me like no tomorrow, but when I met this guy; he was too nice... And he was basically in all my classes at school, so I couldn't avoid him (not that I wanted to), but he kept wanting to buy these things to me and we never have arguments. Isn't it only natural to have fights when you're in a relationship after all? :P
Just because everyone else has fights in their relationships, doesn't mean you have to... and as midas mentioned, there are other ways of dealing with an issue. Don't think about wanting fights... trust me you don't want an abusive boyfriend. ;D
Lol, maybe not 'abusive' as such; maybe just with a bit of edge, if you know what I mean? ;)
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(http://overhrd.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/11/the_edge.jpg)
If you want edge, this is the guy you should be looking at then
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Lol!
But if only someone knew what 'edge' meant to me. :(
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Lol!
But if only someone knew what 'edge' meant to me. :(
Nawww lol.... what do you mean by edge then? :P
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Lol!
But if only someone knew what 'edge' meant to me. :(
Nawww lol.... what do you mean by edge then? :P
Well, there's no real way to explain it... Someone who is nice sometimes, but who is also evil as such... I guess they need the bad boy attitude and a sensitive heart that they don't show to anyone too often (except me :P)? I'm bad at explaining things. XD
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Lol!
But if only someone knew what 'edge' meant to me. :(
Nawww lol.... what do you mean by edge then? :P
Well, there's no real way to explain it... Someone who is nice sometimes, but who is also evil as such... I guess they need the bad boy attitude and a sensitive heart that they don't show to anyone too often (except me :P)? I'm bad at explaining things. XD
Yeah yeah I get what you mean lol... I wouldn't exactly opt for a bad boy per say myself, but I do want to be with someone who would stand up for me, and protect me when the time comes for that...(Yes you're probably thinking then why choose a gay guy who is experimenting... but he could always somehow burn them with a straightening iron ;) or something LOL). At the same time, I don't like to rely on others to protect me, hence why I decided to practice karate.
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Lol!
But if only someone knew what 'edge' meant to me. :(
Nawww lol.... what do you mean by edge then? :P
Well, there's no real way to explain it... Someone who is nice sometimes, but who is also evil as such... I guess they need the bad boy attitude and a sensitive heart that they don't show to anyone too often (except me :P)? I'm bad at explaining things. XD
Yeah yeah I get what you mean lol... I wouldn't exactly opt for a bad boy per say myself, but I do want to be with someone who would stand up for me, and protect me when the time comes for that...(Yes you're probably thinking then why choose a gay guy who is experimenting... but he could always somehow burn them with a straightening iron ;) or something LOL). At the same time, I don't like to rely on others to protect me, hence why I decided to practice karate.
Haha, that's true! :P... But I guess that's the problem, I've never met a guy like that, so I wouldn't know all the qualms and mischief associated with such a responsibility. :(... It would be fun to meet a guy like that, though. :)
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Lol!
But if only someone knew what 'edge' meant to me. :(
Nawww lol.... what do you mean by edge then? :P
Well, there's no real way to explain it... Someone who is nice sometimes, but who is also evil as such... I guess they need the bad boy attitude and a sensitive heart that they don't show to anyone too often (except me :P)? I'm bad at explaining things. XD
Yeah yeah I get what you mean lol... I wouldn't exactly opt for a bad boy per say myself, but I do want to be with someone who would stand up for me, and protect me when the time comes for that...(Yes you're probably thinking then why choose a gay guy who is experimenting... but he could always somehow burn them with a straightening iron ;) or something LOL). At the same time, I don't like to rely on others to protect me, hence why I decided to practice karate.
Haha, that's true! :P... But I guess that's the problem, I've never met a guy like that, so I wouldn't know all the qualms and mischief associated with such a responsibility. :(... It would be fun to meet a guy like that, though. :)
Guy like your fantasy boyfriend? Lol
My mother is trying to set me up with someone else >_> He's like my twin... I told her if I wanted to date someone like me, I'd date myself >_>
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Lol!
But if only someone knew what 'edge' meant to me. :(
Nawww lol.... what do you mean by edge then? :P
Well, there's no real way to explain it... Someone who is nice sometimes, but who is also evil as such... I guess they need the bad boy attitude and a sensitive heart that they don't show to anyone too often (except me :P)? I'm bad at explaining things. XD
Yeah yeah I get what you mean lol... I wouldn't exactly opt for a bad boy per say myself, but I do want to be with someone who would stand up for me, and protect me when the time comes for that...(Yes you're probably thinking then why choose a gay guy who is experimenting... but he could always somehow burn them with a straightening iron ;) or something LOL). At the same time, I don't like to rely on others to protect me, hence why I decided to practice karate.
Haha, that's true! :P... But I guess that's the problem, I've never met a guy like that, so I wouldn't know all the qualms and mischief associated with such a responsibility. :(... It would be fun to meet a guy like that, though. :)
Guy like your fantasy boyfriend? Lol
My mother is trying to set me up with someone else >_> He's like my twin... I told her if I wanted to date someone like me, I'd date myself >_>
Haha, fantasy boyfriends are never found for me. XD
I would hate to date someone like myself... Too similar = no. Like, I'm loud and annoying, so I would want my bf to be quiet and edgy (in the soft kinda way :)). Hehe, I guess that saying is true; 'opposites attract'. ;D
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Yeah it's true. Opposites do attract, but you do need to have some sort of common ground, or you'll just be sitting down in silence for most of the time. Lol (Take it from someone who knows)
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i want someone like happy's ex.
i want someone sweet and cute, and someone i can be childish with too. one that knows how to treat a girl and isant someone else around someone else with other people.
wow im way picky :( ...
i want perfect, i had perfect and i think i threw away perfect..
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
although perfect did send me a text today for christmas.
:)
so i am kinda happy.
i think i know what you mean by on the edge happy.
a boy that likes thrills? and isant always the good boy. like does drag racing on the streets >.<
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Being yelled at/smacked/forced and generally dominated can be linked to one type of fetish.
s&m ftw
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I too wish to find a boyfriend like the overly nice ex mentioned above.
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;) Pick you up around 7?
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;) Pick you up around 7?
no you're not it...
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;) Pick you up around 7?
Why didn't you come? :(
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Lol!
But if only someone knew what 'edge' meant to me. :(
Long lasting excitement ? :P.
only a jk relax
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Lol!
But if only someone knew what 'edge' meant to me. :(
Long lasting excitement ? :P.
only a jk relax
Haha! :P