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Title: 13 year old dad
Post by: doboman on February 13, 2009, 02:58:08 pm
http://www.news.com.au/heraldsun/story/0,21985,25049035-663,00.html

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A 13-YEAR-OLD boy has become a father in Britain. The mum is just 15.
Alfie Patten was present four days ago when his girlfriend Chantelle Steadman gave birth to Maisie Roxanne in Eastbourne Hospital, East Sussex, The Sun reports.

“I thought it would be good to have a baby," Alfie told the major UK paper.

“I didn’t think about how we would afford it. I don’t really get pocket money. My dad sometimes gives me £10 ($21).”

Alfie, who lives with with his mum, admitted he did not know how much nappies cost: “I think it’s a lot.”

Alfie, who was 12 when Maisie was conceived, and Chantelle decided not to have an abortion and had kwpt the pregnancy secret until at 18 weeks Chantelle's mum noticed the weight gain.

“When my mum found out, I thought I was going to get in trouble," Alfie said.

"We wanted to have the baby but were worried how people would react

“I didn’t know what it would be like to be a dad. I will be good, though, and care for it.”

Alfie’s father Dennis, who is separated from the family, said his son did not seem to appreciate what he had got himself into but at least he had taken responsible attitude.

Alfie had been present at the birth and has been keen to cuddle and hold his child.

"He could have shrugged his shoulders and sat at home on his Playstation.

"But he has been at the hospital every day,” Mr Patten said.

Chantelle defends herself and Alfie from accusations they are being irresponsible.

“We know we made a mistake but I wouldn’t change it now," Chantelle says.

"We will be good loving parents.

“I have started a church course and I am going to do work experience helping other young mums.

“I’ll be a great mum and Alfie will be a great dad.”

Chantelle and Maisie were released from hospital yesterday and will be living with her family who are supported by welfare payments.

Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: costargh on February 13, 2009, 03:08:46 pm
WTF! He looks like he's 6 years old.

(http://img.thesun.co.uk/multimedia/archive/00732/SNN1304B-380_732153a.jpg)
(http://img.thesun.co.uk/multimedia/archive/00732/SNN1305AA-380_732314a.jpg)
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: Edmund on February 13, 2009, 03:14:11 pm
And the girl looks 18-20
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Post by: methodsboy on February 13, 2009, 03:17:02 pm
this is sick !
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Post by: iamdan08 on February 13, 2009, 03:34:32 pm
I have a feeling it will be these two kids parents that will end up raising the child.
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: Roflmao on February 13, 2009, 03:45:30 pm
WTF! He looks like he's 6 years old.

(http://img.thesun.co.uk/multimedia/archive/00732/SNN1304B-380_732153a.jpg)
(http://img.thesun.co.uk/multimedia/archive/00732/SNN1305AA-380_732314a.jpg)


I EVEN LOOK OLDER AND IM ONLY 10

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Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: melanie.dee on February 13, 2009, 03:56:03 pm
Oh my god he looks 8 - 10, not 13! I find it kind of sick that the 15yo girl would be attracted to someone who looked that young! Yuck.
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: costargh on February 13, 2009, 03:59:37 pm
How is he even developed? like....
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: iamdan08 on February 13, 2009, 04:02:15 pm
How is he even developed? like....

Lol...i'd do a DNA test to see if he is actually the father.
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: Roflmao on February 13, 2009, 04:14:08 pm
How is he even developed? like....

How can he even make semen lol
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: Eriny on February 13, 2009, 04:24:38 pm
That's strange. And it clearly isn't very sensible on a financial level. My brother is 12, and I don't think he'd really have a good idea of what is involved in raising a family, but the 15 year old mother should know better.
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: RD on February 13, 2009, 04:44:29 pm
Very. Fucked. Up.
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: Roflmao on February 13, 2009, 05:11:08 pm
This is fucked up right here
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Post by: hard on February 13, 2009, 05:28:20 pm
fuckkkkkkkkkkkkkkk whata ugly cunts. seriously has she got a brain? fucking a 12 year old! his dick wouldn't even reach 2cm.
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: Roflmao on February 13, 2009, 05:41:54 pm
fuckkkkkkkkkkkkkkk whata ugly cunts. seriously has she got a brain? fucking a 12 year old! his dick wouldn't even reach 2cm.
lol 2 cm fark that like 2 thumbs
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: hard on February 13, 2009, 05:48:08 pm
fuckkkkkkkkkkkkkkk whata ugly cunts. seriously has she got a brain? fucking a 12 year old! his dick wouldn't even reach 2cm.
lol 2 cm fark that like 2 thumbs
no that like 2 cm of a thumb
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: gregi on February 13, 2009, 05:59:06 pm
playaaaaaaaa
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Post by: Toothpaste on February 13, 2009, 06:00:33 pm
Poor kid. (the youngest one)
Imagine looking through baby photos when she's older ... "I HAD A BROTHER?"
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: ReVeL on February 13, 2009, 07:01:27 pm
This is seriously fucked up. Something is very wrong.

What kind of life is that child going to be living.. I assume they'll get help but still, wtf.
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Post by: kurrymuncher on February 13, 2009, 09:49:38 pm
Horrible, absolutely horrible.
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: cobby on February 13, 2009, 10:20:31 pm
I have a feeling it will be these two kids parents that will end up raising the child.
I agree, it will be like raising another one of their children, rather than a grand child :|

This is terrible.
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: Amnesiac on February 15, 2009, 11:56:56 pm
Haha the world is so fucked up right now.
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: midas_touch on February 16, 2009, 12:17:49 am
This is absolutely shocking and disturbing and the pics make it even worse.
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: phagist_ on February 16, 2009, 12:37:22 pm
http://www.newsoftheworld.co.uk/news/177665/Richard-Goodsell-Im-the-real-daddy-Alfie-and-I-want-a-DNA-test-to-prove-it.html

2 other kids claim to be the dad.

jesus.
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: midas_touch on February 16, 2009, 12:41:45 pm
Just as we thought that this story couldn't get any worse.....
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: iamdan08 on February 16, 2009, 01:11:18 pm
Shit, this girl gets around!
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: osmoister on February 16, 2009, 01:13:15 pm
Just as we thought that this story couldn't get any worse.....

it got worse lol, man she's one messed up girl and he's one messed up boy. you gotta feel for the child and his future life though. it'll be unusual to say the least.
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: bubble sunglasses on February 16, 2009, 01:17:41 pm
 I don't see it as intrinsically immoral, 13 yr olds having sex and being parents; that said, it is most usually a highly problematic occurrence for the individuals involved. There's also a possible side-effect, outlined here:

 "Alfie’s story will be bought and spread across the gutter-press because it is ‘in the public interest,’ and then guess what? Children of eleven will be pushed into having sex by families hoping they`ll have a baby and so, a story to sell. But if the gutter press had any conscience, sense of public duty or morality they would not buy such stories, not now, not ever and they would say so, loud and clear."
http://www.spectator.co.uk/coffeehouse/3359676/a-story-the-press-should-not-encourage.thtml
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: Gloamglozer on February 16, 2009, 03:04:05 pm
I don't understand why Richard Goodsell would even come out publicly saying that he is the "real" dad...  Unless if he's in it for the money...
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: Mao on February 16, 2009, 05:08:18 pm
...
/me facepalms
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: BlueYoHo on February 16, 2009, 05:45:22 pm
Omg what a slut! That's seriously f*k*ed.
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: ninwa on February 16, 2009, 06:54:40 pm
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And amazingly the News Of The World has uncovered claims that Chantelle was sleeping with as many as EIGHT teenage boys around the time the baby was conceived on the Old Town estate in Eastbourne, Sussex.


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Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: Glockmeister on February 16, 2009, 10:54:01 pm
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And amazingly the News Of The World has uncovered claims that Chantelle was sleeping with as many as EIGHT teenage boys around the time the baby was conceived on the Old Town estate in Eastbourne, Sussex.


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Though News of the World is sorta like our Herald Sun (you can sorta tell from the language they use), so I'd take that claim with a pinch of salt.
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: bubble sunglasses on February 16, 2009, 11:06:17 pm


 ^ heh, NOTW is quite a bit trashier than HS
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: excal on February 17, 2009, 12:20:29 am
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And amazingly the News Of The World has uncovered claims that Chantelle was sleeping with as many as EIGHT teenage boys around the time the baby was conceived on the Old Town estate in Eastbourne, Sussex.


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Though News of the World is sorta like our Herald Sun (you can sorta tell from the language they use), so I'd take that claim with a pinch of salt.

You mean, a liberal dashing of salt?
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: costargh on February 17, 2009, 12:25:39 am


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After further investigation, the News Of The World has uncovered claims that Chantelle was sleeping with as many as THIRTEEN teenage boys around the time the baby was conceived.
http://www.theage.com.au/world/13yearold-boy-becomes-a-father-20090216-88iu.html
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: Mao on February 17, 2009, 12:52:27 am
^^ i couldn't find that quote in the link, which led me to think that

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After further investigation, the News Of The World has uncovered claims that Chantelle was sleeping with as many as OVER 9000 teenage boys around the time the baby was conceived.
http://www.theinternetisasensationalpla.ce
Title: Re: 13 year old dad
Post by: costargh on February 17, 2009, 12:53:32 am
:P