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Title: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: EEEEEEP on September 09, 2017, 07:35:58 pm
https://theconversation.com/ethnic-religious-communities-may-be-the-no-campaigns-secret-weapon-in-same-sex-marriage-fight-82429
http://www.theaustralian.com.au/national-affairs/religious-leaders-reserve-the-right-to-call-homosexuality-a-sin/news-story/7cb99e1bbc4af12af58ccdd8b21627f2
- Religious blocs, consisting of conservative Jewish, Muslim and Christian leaders, have previously united to confront the UN over birth control strategies, and show their resistance to abortion and similar interventions.

- Interfaith meetings have taken place where religious leaders combined to confront government agencies on the same-sex marriage question, and even the very legitimacy of homosexuality.

http://www.aph.gov.au/Parliamentary_Business/Committees/Senate/Same_Sex_Marriage/SameSexMarriage/Submissions
-   Upon looking at some submissions I found evidence for the above statements..
o   https://imgur.com/a/T4B9m  - Proof of statements
Sikh – Says No
(https://i.imgur.com/qiPcZjl.png)

Jews – No
(https://i.imgur.com/ZpflfmO.png)

Greek orthodox -No
(https://i.imgur.com/guEHcLV.png)

Apostolic church- NO
(https://i.imgur.com/FOSPqjw.png)

Islamic councils - NO (Zetland mosque, Islamic council of Qld)
“We share the concern of other religious groups that misinterpretation of such laws can trample upon religious freedom to criticise sexual preferences,”

“Homosexuality is considered a sin in Islam, however, it is also a sin to humiliate and insult people who belong to the LGBTQI ­community.”

**i know some of you might have differing opinions even if you identify with that religion **
...
8.5 million Christians, about 4.7 million secularists and non-believers, about 300,000 Buddhists, about 230,000 Muslims, 160,000 Hindus, and about 60,000 Jews. If 60% of the believing communities responded “No”, then same-sex marriage could fail.
...
My question to you...
- "should religious communities be able to influence or have a say  on the rights of same sex people?"
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: Aaron on September 09, 2017, 07:45:45 pm
Everyone should be able to express their own views on the matter freely (whether this be in support or against it), as long as they are respectful. The decision to vote 'yes' or 'no' should be carefully considered at an individual/personal level, rather than being persuaded or influenced by anybody else.

What I don't understand is how the matter affects anyone who isn't in a same-sex relationship. If you don't want to perform a same-sex marriage ceremony, don't. If you don't like the idea of a same-sex marriage, don't marry someone of the same sex. If your religious beliefs state that you should not support SSM, then make a decision and choose to support it or not (it still won't affect you, but ok). IMO it is nobody else's business apart from those who are involved.

Times have changed.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: PhoenixxFire on September 09, 2017, 07:46:10 pm
Heeeellllll No Marriages already happen outside of faith one person's religion should not dictate how others live their lives.

EDIT: Given everyone is talking about freedom of religion etc. Just wanted to clarify, religious individuals should have just as much say as everyone else. I think its fine for religious communities to have a position but they should not be forcing that position on others eg funding ads, giving speeches etc.

Having said that I don't think ANYONE should have say on whether consenting adults should be allowed to get married except the individuals involved.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: fantasticbeasts3 on September 09, 2017, 08:11:30 pm
helloooo people.

before i say anything, not that this is totally necessary to what i'm about to say, but i'm a practicing catholic - and a proud one at that. my opinion on same sex marriage is not aligned with the Catholic Church, in that if i could vote (i can't because of age), i'd vote yes.

in a way, the Church has a responsibility to state their opinion on this subject because they administer marriages. of course, you don't have to get married in a church, but they were the sole administrator of marriages for a long time (or were they? a bit unsure). their stance has been marriage is only for a man and woman, and they continue to maintain that. the Church regards marriage as a sacrament, and therefore, something that is very sacred. because of this, they won't marry same sex couples because it doesn't align with their view of marriage.

as for other religions, they have their own opinions on same sex marriage, as they're other administrators of marriage. they may think of marriage of sacred, like christians. i can't tell for sure, because i haven't looked into it, but the idea of marriage as a sacred thing is probably commonly shared over these religions.

like aaron said, everyone has the right to an opinion. in saying that, for a solid 3 weeks or so, the priest at my local parish has been like "hey guys, remember to vote no in the marriage vote!!!!" and i can tell you for sure that people have been influenced by this. it's also important for them to remember that they don't have to perform marriage rites for same sex marriage... like if you don't want to, don't.

however, religions should respect the opinions of others because loads of people in the LGBTQI+ (is that what it is now? can't remember) community feel ostracised from the rest of society, thinking that people are so against them. and that's crap.

so yea. religions can say whatever they want to, but they should respect the opinions of others while saying what they want to say.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: katie,rinos on September 09, 2017, 09:03:52 pm
Hey,
So, i'm a Christian but like fantasticbeasts if I could vote I would vote yes (theres a few different reasons and my opinion has definitely changed over the last few years).

Although, marriage has become more secular, it did originally begin with the church so I think the church should still have some say in this (even if only small). I believe that everybody (regardless of religion) should be able to have a say and vote for same-sex marriage and what they believe in. However, this should be in a respectful way where either opinion (yes or no) is not criticised for being wrong.

We were actually talking about this in my Bible class the other day, and while it was a respectful discussion we all knew our teacher was against SSM (but were given resources and allowed to form our own opinions). I think that people who are religious may want to influence our own opinions because they are so passionate about their beliefs/religion and the sacredness of marriage (which I also think is a part of all religions). However, I  believe that Christians (and other religions) should try to be more accepting of the LGBTQI+ community and that 'bible bashing' or criticising same-sex couples and their lifestlyes will never achieve anything positive.

Regardless of religion everybody should be able to come to their own decisions and should not try to be too influenced by everything around them. Whether it be religion, media, politics, or whatever else you hear about SSM, this decision should still be your choice.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: Bri MT on September 09, 2017, 09:21:26 pm
I believe that religious individuals should be able to have a say just as much as any other individual, I don't believe that religions as institutions should.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: jockey99 on September 09, 2017, 10:07:56 pm
Yes, but no in a way that bullies the LGBT community.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: LifeisaConstantStruggle on September 09, 2017, 10:13:11 pm
http://www.ucanews.com/story-archive/?post_name=/1987/08/01/lee-kuan-yew-again-warns-all-clergymen-to-keep-out-of-politics&post_id=35564

Here's an article about a speech given three decades ago, might be old but it's still very relevant in relation to the Australian political atmosphere today.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: EEEEEEP on September 09, 2017, 10:24:18 pm
http://www.ucanews.com/story-archive/?post_name=/1987/08/01/lee-kuan-yew-again-warns-all-clergymen-to-keep-out-of-politics&post_id=35564
Here's an article about a speech given three decades ago, might be old but it's still very relevant in relation to the Australian political atmosphere today.

Wow. Thanks for the link :). It's actually a great speech and a very compelling argument that he has there.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: heids on September 09, 2017, 10:36:04 pm
Religious individuals should be allowed to give their opinion as much as anyone, whatever that opinion is.  You can't exclude people on the basis of their religion any more than you can on any other basis.

I may not agree with their logic, but we all have free choice in our votes, and that's a wonderful thing.  We all do what we think is the best for society.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: dankfrank420 on September 09, 2017, 11:17:32 pm
Of course they should be allowed to speak.

But if their argument can be summarized to "God said don't be gay so no" then they shouldn't really be taken seriously at all.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: vox nihili on September 10, 2017, 12:56:54 am
I agree with the vast majority here that it is perfectly appropriate for religious leaders to express their views and for people who practice a religion to express views about their religious belief.
Frankly, the idea that they shouldn't be allowed to is insane. We value free speech in this country, and that means accepting that some people will have views different to your own. Likewise, barring religious people from the debate would also infringe on the right to freedom of religion.

To be perfectly honest, I think religious leaders do themselves a disservice by loudly getting involved in this debate. They effectively ostracise the next generation by spouting views that are dramatically inconsistent with those of young people. In doing so, they live their own grave.
Some of the crap coming out of the Catholic Church is particularly grating. It's really hard to hear an organisation that presided over the abuse of children, covered it up and then sought to pay as little compensation as possible, talk about the immorality of gays marrying and the importance of protecting children from gay parents.


Personally, I don't believe that politicians shouldn't enforce their personal religious beliefs as law. This is a secular nation and our parliament does us an enormous disservice when it enacts laws in the name of religion (parliamentarians are a hell of s lot more devout than the average Australian,  and our laws reflect this).
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: Atlantis on September 10, 2017, 09:57:06 am
Yes religious people should have the right to participate in the same sex mariage debate, just as anyone should.

Although It still doesn't stop the thought of how ridiculous it is that a group of people who are not affected much by SSM have such strong opinions on it and are helping to decide what happens to a minority group. It's such a strange concept to me. It's like, "This is not morally right to me, so hey, YOU can't do it."
Even though it's not affecting them??? They don't have to participate in any LGBTQ+ marriages and they have their right as a church to say no to marrying a couple if it's against their religion, but to say no in general because it offends them (and god?) that people want to be happy is absolutely insane to me.


Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: strawberries on September 10, 2017, 10:08:01 am
those who voted no, why?
(just wondering)
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: peterpiper on September 10, 2017, 11:44:15 am
those who voted no, why? :)
(just wondering, not attacking or anything)

Haha with that passive smiley face you're probably not going to have anyone rushing to answer this. Just saying :P
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: appleandbee on September 10, 2017, 01:00:57 pm
Yes, I think religious people should have a say and be free to have their opinions informed by their religious convictions. The issues with illiberal views on SSM and lgbtiq+ groups, should be attributed to organised/centralised religion, not religion itself. Theorganised nature of many religions (eg.having authoritative figures and institutions) gives power to those at the top of the hierarchy to assert their interpretations of the text and entrench patriarchal structures as well as those that excludes lgbtiq+ groups (although there are a few liberal churches which are inclusive of lgbtiq+ groups.

Also for all those that say that SSM is only symbolic or that it doesn't affect anybody, this article is pretty convincing. While marriage shouldn't be the only solution to this problem, because not marrying is a legitimate lifestyle choice, it's a step forward in helping the kids involved. Having known people that grew up with two mothers or two fathers, and having experienced the complex nature of family law myself, I can deeply empathise.

http://trinitynews.ie/what-growing-up-in-a-queer-family-means-to-me/
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: elysepopplewell on September 11, 2017, 11:10:10 am
Yes, religious persons should be able to have a say in the decision about same-sex marriage. Wouldn't it make the vote even moooore silly if only atheists were allowed to vote?

What I dislike, is the talk of marriage as a Christian invention. Marriage has existed loooong before Christianity, however in different forms. Marriage has a fluid relationship with society throughout ages and places. For example, I recently read that Emperor Nero was married - to two men. I remember studying Deir El medina in Year 11 for Ancient History, (ancient history, AKA, before Christianity), and the role of women in marriages as an economic relationship as well as a love relationship. It is also not an uncommon narrative for there to be periods of time where polygamous relationships were the preferred marriage structure. In Africa, there have been female husbands" which is a situation where the husbands could not carry out the role of what we might refer to in modern western society as the "bread winner" so a woman is delegated that role. And so on, and so on, and so on.

The reason I say this is - it is incorrect to say "marriage has always been between a man and a woman" as a defence for that being the reason it should stay this way. Has it always been between a man and a woman within Christianity? Debatable - but I'm happy to settle on the mainstream experience of marriage in Christianity as being heterosexual.

I support religious institution's right to maintain marriage in a religious sense as being between a man and a woman. This is not the debate at hand Australia-wide, however. This is about the legal institution of marriage, not the religious institution.

I find it particularly distasteful and offensive when a religious marriage is seen as a "real marriage" in arguments. A "real marriage" as being heterosexual and monogamous is completely ignorant to the dynamic experience of relationships within our own country, and abroad. Frankly, the idealisation of a nuclear family is detrimental to the celebration of diversity we could be relishing in, very harmful to the REAL, human, experiences of members of our society, and pretty ignorant of reality.

My arguments has a bias skewed against the arguments I see presented by Christians - seeing as my own community is raising Christian arguments and they have the loudest political presence of the religious institutions in this debate at the present time.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: EEEEEEP on September 11, 2017, 11:36:23 am
Interjection =)

Okay, a lot of people have said... yes... cause freedom of speech (and Democratic systems) .

If religion should have no say in politics, why should they have  a say in this debate as SSM is kinda political and societal at the same time?

This is about a legal institution, so does that not rule religious organisations out of this?
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: Calebark on September 11, 2017, 11:46:41 am
Interjection =)

Okay, a lot of people have said... yes... cause freedom of speech (and Democratic systems) .

If religion should have no say in politics, why should they have  a say in this debate as SSM is kinda political and societal at the same time?

This is about a legal institution, so does that not rule religious organisations out of this?

I think that religious organisations can give opinions on anything, no matter how political -- we just can't be expected to seriously consider any arguments that are not secular in nature (like more than 'because my holy book says so').
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: zofromuxo on September 11, 2017, 11:58:09 am
I think everyone should have a say in this vote , we live in a democracy that allows for this. Yes, you may not like what people vote and that is okay. Have a reasonable, rational discussion about it.

What I don't like about this debate is the nit-picking, harassment and propaganda from both sides [Yes, both sides].

Just stick to the facts and at the end of the day, your vote is personal.
I was at the start against this vote because of the legality behind it, but have since changed my tone due to the high court's decision.
If religion plays a part on how you vote, then so be it. We all take influences from sources to help shape our decisions.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: achre on September 11, 2017, 07:04:38 pm
Well yeah, any Australian on the electoral roll can return a response of either yes or no to the postal survey, so the relgious and the non-religious will have a say on same-sex marriage. But if the question is "should religious people have a platform in the public debate on same sex marriage", then the answer is no, if they're presenting a non-secular argument, because Australian marriage law has nothing to do with religion, except that some religious officials are also registered celebrants. It would be a waste of airtime and newspaper ink to give them their 5 minutes.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: exit on September 11, 2017, 07:11:48 pm
Well yeah, any Australian on the electoral roll can return a response of either yes or no to the postal survey, so the relgious and the non-religious will have a say on same-sex marriage. But if the question is "should religious people have a platform in the public debate on same sex marriage", then the answer is no, if they're presenting a non-secular argument, because Australian marriage law has nothing to do with religion, except that some religious officials are also registered celebrants. It would be a waste of airtime and newspaper ink to give them their 5 minutes.

That's not really a valid argument. They're allowed their opinion as much as you are, even if you might not agree with it. But yeah, if they are presenting a nonsecular argument, it would be easy to break down since what they say would not apply to everyone so noone would do that. So either way, they should be allowed to give their say
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: vox nihili on September 11, 2017, 07:15:32 pm

Interjection =)

Okay, a lot of people have said... yes... cause freedom of speech (and Democratic systems) .

If religion should have no say in politics, why should they have  a say in this debate as SSM is kinda political and societal at the same time?

This is about a legal institution, so does that not rule religious organisations out of this?

I believe politicians should leave religion out of their decision making because they're elected to represent more than 100K people, the majority of whom will belong to a different religion.
Religious institutions should be more than able to express their views in public though, nor should they aspire not to.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: achre on September 11, 2017, 07:22:08 pm
That's not really a valid argument. They're allowed their opinion as much as you are, even if you might not agree with it. But yeah, if they are presenting a nonsecular argument, it would be easy to break down since what they say would not apply to everyone so noone would do that. So either way, they should be allowed to give their say
They're allowed their opinion, and they can even express that opinion on their ballot. They shouldn't be allowed to clog the public debate with irrelevant points from their personal doctrine, we don't have unlimited platforms. Our news media recognises that, it's why Lyle Shelton is scraping the bottom of the barrel trying to find secular points to dissuade the "yes" vote, because he knows if he got on ABC radio and told the truth about why he doesn't want a yes win, he'd be laughed off air.

Freedom of speech is not the freedom to be heard. Nobody owes you an audience.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: elysepopplewell on September 11, 2017, 07:53:29 pm
Actually I'll add something here I should've mentioned earlier -

Should everyone have a right to have their say in this? Not really. Because what this is, is giving the nation, millions of strangers, the ability to voice an opinion on the validity of another person's relationship or family relationship. A person, or people, they know nothing about, will know nothing about, and will likely never be affected by. The nation is being given a platform to validate or invalidate a very real, human, experience, in the eyes of a law that we don't have the direct ability to make.

So to me, the whole thing is bullcrap, but this is where we are and we will make the most of it. So talking specifically about the vote as it stands, yes every person is equal in having their share and say. Talking about the issue outside of the issue of eligibility to vote - I feel very upset that legitimate relationships and family units are being put up on the stage for loud bids to be screamed at them, like their human experiences are a spectacle of our society and we, collectively, have an obligation to pass judgement.

Live and let live! Let's make the most of this postal vote in the hopes of positive change so this harmful rhetoric is simmered down.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: sudodds on September 11, 2017, 08:12:47 pm
They're allowed their opinion, and they can even express that opinion on their ballot. They shouldn't be allowed to clog the public debate with irrelevant points from their personal doctrine, we don't have unlimited platforms. Our news media recognises that, it's why Lyle Shelton is scraping the bottom of the barrel trying to find secular points to dissuade the "yes" vote, because he knows if he got on ABC radio and told the truth about why he doesn't want a yes win, he'd be laughed off air.

Freedom of speech is not the freedom to be heard. Nobody owes you an audience.
This reminds me a lot of a uni reading that we once had to do, titled "No, you’re not entitled to your opinion" that honestly made me rethink my outlook on the concept of "freedom of speech" quite a lot! Here is the article if anyone is interested. Essentially, it makes the point that yes, everyone can have an opinion, but not every opinion deserves to be shared, or to be given a platform. Many news networks, in an effort to seem unbiased, will try to present both sides of a debate, even if one sides argument is factually/scientifically baseless, as equals. The SSM debate is an example of this, but also climate change, vaccinations, etc. Like they'll give equal platform to a climate change denier, and an accredited scientist and call that "unbiased", which in the authors (and tbh, my) opinion is just silly, and often harmful. It keeps debates on things that really shouldn't be up for debate still going, which promotes more skepticism, and the spread of misinformation.

I do think there are some problems with this mentality, in the sense that were do we draw the line or distinguish between a "baseless opinion" and just an unpopular one, however when it comes to SSM, there really isn't any valid argument as to why it shouldn't be passed. To a certain extent even, I question whether anyone deserves a say in it being passed, purely because I don't believe this should be a matter of opinion. Why should I get a say in whether or not someone else can get married/have the same rights as me? Like, a vote on whether or not, say, to become a republic is something that affects everyone, so a vote on that makes sense - but passing SSM literally only affects those who will get married to the same sex... that has nothing to do with me, so why should I get a say? Like of course I have an opinion on whether or not I believe SS couples should be able to get married, and that opinion is a resounding YES, but do I believe that should even matter? I'm not really sure. (EDIT - pretty much what elyse said aha)

But yeah, there's definitely some flaws in the articles logic, but overall, pretty interesting stuff :)
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: strawberries on September 11, 2017, 09:16:53 pm
I question whether anyone deserves a say in it being passed, purely because I don't believe this should be a matter of opinion
this x1000
slightly offtopic
this survey is stupid, pointless and a waste of money :) :) :)
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: zofromuxo on September 12, 2017, 07:00:09 am
this x1000
slightly offtopic
this survey is stupid, pointless and a waste of money :) :) :)
Your spoiler isn't offtopic at all, in fact a lot of people at the very start of the announcement felt this way and still do in a way.
But if I recall from an article I read with Penny Wong, the spearhead behind the survey. She said this was the only way in parliament she could get same-sex marriage to get through as a law.

Which is sad to be honest since now the Liberal party is like "everyone vote yes" and I'm just counting all the money that just got lost because they don't say yes earlier.... But politics is politics, don't bother with agreeing with your opposition even if you feel that's right, just disagree because we can't have them be correct.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: 12070 on September 15, 2017, 05:18:12 pm
Wow! First time I have seen a respectful discussion on this matter. This seems to be an anomaly which I'm quite disappointed about if I'm being honest.

To explicitly address your question; Yes.

Most people have already said 'freedom of speech' and hence, your motivation should not matter so I don't need to go over that. Although very much entitled to do so, I think  'no voters' shouldn't primarily use The Bible as their reason for voting no. I personally think there will be repercussions for Businesses, Schools, Churches etc. and this is where I think the argument of 'it won't affect you' is not entirely true. I don't know if anyone remembers the religious bakery that was issued a $135,000 fine for refusing to write 'support gay marriage' on a wedding cake and consequently had to close down. I don't feel as though this was discrimination, just a different political view. For example, if I went into a bakery and asked for a cake with the message 'Make America Great Again' and they refused, it isn't discriminatory against me as a person, it is a political view, thus I feel they are justified to refuse it. In Britain, Catholic adoption agencies have been forced to close down and an orthodox Jewish school threatened with defunding. So the notion of 'it won't affect you' may be true for most but I believe that legalising gay-marriage will precipitate major ramifications for some religious people/groups.

I don't want to see this in Australia but I also want gay's to have the right to marry. Unfortunately, I believe the two are mutually exclusive and therefore I am glad I'm not 18 yet because it would be a difficult decision.

Just reiterating that this is all my opinion (even though AN has the most respectful community- quite literally) and I do want to become more educated on this topic so please feel free to contest anything I have said.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: Calebark on September 15, 2017, 06:13:46 pm
Wow! First time I have seen a respectful discussion on this matter. This seems to be an anomaly which I'm quite disappointed about if I'm being honest.

To explicitly address your question; Yes.

Most people have already said 'freedom of speech' and hence, your motivation should not matter so I don't need to go over that. Although very much entitled to do so, I think  'no voters' shouldn't primarily use The Bible as their reason for voting no. I personally think there will be repercussions for Businesses, Schools, Churches etc. and this is where I think the argument of 'it won't affect you' is not entirely true. I don't know if anyone remembers the religious bakery that was issued a $135,000 fine for refusing to write 'support gay marriage' on a wedding cake and consequently had to close down. I don't feel as though this was discrimination, just a different political view. For example, if I went into a bakery and asked for a cake with the message 'Make America Great Again' and they refused, it isn't discriminatory against me as a person, it is a political view, thus I feel they are justified to refuse it. In Britain, Catholic adoption agencies have been forced to close down and an orthodox Jewish school threatened with defunding. So the notion of 'it won't affect you' may be true for most but I believe that legalising gay-marriage will precipitate major ramifications for some religious people/groups.

I don't want to see this in Australia but I also want gay's to have the right to marry. Unfortunately, I believe the two are mutually exclusive and therefore I am glad I'm not 18 yet because it would be a difficult decision.

Just reiterating that this is all my opinion (even though AN has the most respectful community- quite literally) and I do want to become more educated on this topic so please feel free to contest anything I have said.

You're pretty damn polite, so I hope you appreciate yourself for being one of the reasons why we can have sensible debates like this :)

I'm personally conflicted on refusing service to people on the grounds of opinion (hate speech excluded). I feel it could lead to some dangerous circumstances. Say I wanted a cake with a picture of my hypothetical boyfriend and myself for our wedding, but all the cake shops in the area refuse. Shouldn't I have the freedom to acquire goods like anyone else? Freedom to serve v. be served, I suppose.

I don't really see how SSM would be related to funding of religious buildings. Even if SSM would cause minor detriment to religion, I don't see this as an issue. If the giving of equality means you suffer, this isn't their fault for wanting to be equal -- it's your fault for making it an 'us versus them' issue. I can't think of a conceivable scenario where SSM would result in any unfair treatment, but I can think of unfair treatment for the reverse.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: geminii on September 19, 2017, 10:50:51 pm
I think everyone should be able to have a say on the matter (given that they're eligible to vote). Even if you can't vote, you're still allowed to have an opinion.

I have a group of four friends - three are Christian, of which one cannot vote yet, one is on the fence, and one will vote no, and a Catholic friend, who will vote yes. I am a Hindu, and I am on the fence.

Yes, my religion is one of very few that permits homosexuality. However, my reason for being on the fence and not jumping to the YES vote is that I fear that by allowing same-sex couples to get married, it may go too far. I have nothing wrong with gay and lesbian people. I have gay friends. What I mean by 'it may go too far' is, if we take a look at Canada, after they allowed same-sex marriage, laws like Bill C-16 and Bill 89 are destroying free speech.

Bill C-16 means you can go to jail if you misgender someone - whether purposely or accidentally - and you could be fined up to $250,000. It means you can sue someone for misgendering you. And with the new list of genders (the number is constantly changing), it makes it extremely difficult to remember someone's pronouns of either he, her, zir, hir, vir, xem, etc...). If you slip up, it can be extremely dangerous.

Bill 89 means that if a parent does not accept their child's gender identity, the child can be removed from the home. Never mind that of children who say they're transgender as a child, 80% grow up to feel comfortable in their birth bodies...

I 100% have no problem with same-sex marriage. But I do have a problem with the potential introduction of bills such as these in Australia. So for me, I'm probably not going to vote.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: Joseph41 on September 19, 2017, 10:58:40 pm
^I'm struggling to see the connection between SSM and those things you've identified. Could you flesh it out a little further?
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: appleandbee on September 19, 2017, 11:25:09 pm
^I'm struggling to see the connection between SSM and those things you've identified. Could you flesh it out a little further?

I think she is referring to the way that SSM which is aimed at reducing homophobia (at least send a social message that belong to the lgbtq+ identity group is legitimate) , would result in those homophobic views being officially socially unacceptable if SSM is legalised, leading to those kind of laws which doesn't permit such behaviour (although I think that the description of the punishments may be a blow-up and exaggeration by conservative media).

Quite frankly, I don't mind free speech being impacted in this manner, as there are many far more interesting and constructive debates that we could be having than ones about the legitimacy of someone's identity or sexuality. We lose very little in terms of freedom of speech, if those debates and views are delegitimised, even they were legitimised, there would be very little if anything that would come out of it (apart from people being hurt). People can still free hold homophobic views, but they are rightly delegitimised in the public space if SSM is legalised. But yeah, it's the inherent purpose of SSM is to reduce homophobia and legitimised the identity and relationships of people from those groups.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: geminii on September 30, 2017, 04:47:28 pm
I think she is referring to the way that SSM which is aimed at reducing homophobia (at least send a social message that belong to the lgbtq+ identity group is legitimate) , would result in those homophobic views being officially socially unacceptable if SSM is legalised, leading to those kind of laws which doesn't permit such behaviour (although I think that the description of the punishments may be a blow-up and exaggeration by conservative media).

Yes, this is exactly what I mean - everybody will be forced to hold a certain view of a topic on which people should be free to develop their own opinions.

Schools, even religious ones, will be forced to teach transgender issues to children as young as 4 or 5, and even earlier in kindergarten, whether the parents agree to it or not. If you don't agree with teaching a four-year-old that girls can become boys and boys can become girls and people can be in between or neither, then you will have no say in your child being taught this at school.

Recently, parents of a five-year-old child were outraged after the child's kindergarten teacher performed a demonstration involving introducing "the student to the class as a boy and then he went to the bathroom and emerged dressed as a girl. The teacher reintroduced the student explaining that he was "now a girl."" Children were traumatised. ""My daughter came home crying and shaking so afraid she could turn into a boy," another parent said."

Washington State's New Health Education Law - http://www.k12.wa.us/HealthFitness/Standards/HPE-Standards.pdf.
Note, under the Kindergarten Age Group on page 29: "Understand there are many ways to express gender." Kids this age cannot even read, but are being taught about something as complex as gender to push this agenda. Children this young need to be learning their alphabet, not transgenderism.

Also, two parents have been left with no option but to pull their six year old son out of school to homeschool him after his school denied his parents the right to opt out of the transgenderism classes. (http://www.breitbart.com/london/2017/09/11/christian-parents-sue-school-six-year-old-change-gender-identity/).
"Mr. Rowe told The Sunday Times: “A child aged six would sometimes come to school as a girl or sometimes come to school as a boy. Our concerns were raised when our son came back home from school saying he was confused as to why and how a boy was now a girl.""

Also, the punishments are not an exaggeration.

For Bill C-16:
- "“If you try to disavow that theory, you can be brought before the Human Rights Commission for misgendering or potentially find yourself guilty of a hate crime. To sum up, on the subject of gender, we’re going to have government-mandated speech.”
Those who refuse to go along could be “brought before the federal tribunal,” Brown said.
If the tribunal assess a penalty such as a fine or “non-monetary remedy, such as a cease and desist order or an order to compel them to do something,” and the person refuses, “they will find themselves in contempt of court and prison is the likely outcome of that process until they purge the contempt.”"

- "Section 319(1) makes it a criminal offence to incite hatred against any identifiable group where this is likely to result in a breach of the peace. Section 319(2) makes it an offence to communicate, except in private conversation, statements that wilfully promote hatred against an identifiable group, whether by telephone, broadcasting or other audible or visible means." Meaning you could be talking to a friend about how you might not think Caitlyn Jenner is really a woman over the phone and you would be breaking the law. What if you're religious or don't believe that people can suddenly swap genders? Bye bye freedom, hello jail.

For Bill 89:
- "QP Briefing reports: “[Ontario’s Minister of Child and Family Services] Coteau said … that it could be abuse for an LGBT teen to be told their identity is wrong and they should change. ‘I would consider that a form of abuse, when a child identifies one way and a caregiver is saying no, you need to do this differently,’ he said. ‘If it’s abuse, and if it’s within the definition, a child can be removed from that environment and placed into protection where the abuse stops,’ he said.”"

Additionally, New York City's Discrimination Law can fine you for up to a hefty $250,000 dollars for misgendering someone, along with various other 'crimes'. Some are:
"-Repeatedly referring to a person by something other than their chosen title, such as “Mr.” or “Ms.” The policy doesn’t explicitly say how gender-neutral titles such as “Mx.” should be treated, though it is implied such titles must be used if a person desires it.
-Refusing to call a person by their chosen pronoun. Said pronouns not only include “he” and “she,” but also explicitly include gender-neutral ones such as “ze/hir,” if that is what they desire.
-Requiring a person to legally change their name before using their preferred alternative. For example, company may not insist on calling an employee John if he prefers Jane, even if John is his legal name.
-Requiring a person to prove they have begun gender transition treatment before referring to them by alternative pronouns, names, and titles."
"Ordinary violations of the guidelines can result in fines of up to $125,000, while offenses stemming from “willful, wanton, or malicious conduct” can incur fines of up to $250,000. In addition to these civil penalties, the commission may award an unlimited amount of compensatory damages to anybody deemed a victim of discrimination."
- it is extremely difficult to prove whether someone was intentionally discriminating or accidentally discriminating against a transgender person, hence the danger of this law. But even if it was an 'ordinary violation', meaning accidental, you can say goodbye to $125,000.


Sources:
http://www1.cbn.com/cbnnews/us/2017/august/kindergarteners-scared-they-will-be-turned-into-boys-after-school-celebrates-transgender-transition
https://www.cbsnews.com/news/transgender-reveal-kindergarten-class-rocklin-academy-parents-upset/
https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/canadian-bill-opposing-transgenderism-will-put-you-in-jail
https://arpacanada.ca/news/2017/01/06/bill-89/
https://lop.parl.ca/About/Parliament/LegislativeSummaries/bills_ls.asp?Language=E&ls=c16&Parl=42&Ses=1&source=library_prb
http://dailycaller.com/2015/12/28/new-york-can-fine-you-250k-for-misgendering-somebody/
http://www.dailywire.com/news/6274/washington-state-will-now-teach-small-children-james-barrett
http://www.k12.wa.us/HealthFitness/Standards/HPE-Standards.pdf
http://www.breitbart.com/london/2017/09/11/christian-parents-sue-school-six-year-old-change-gender-identity/


I'm personally conflicted on refusing service to people on the grounds of opinion (hate speech excluded). I feel it could lead to some dangerous circumstances. Say I wanted a cake with a picture of my hypothetical boyfriend and myself for our wedding, but all the cake shops in the area refuse. Shouldn't I have the freedom to acquire goods like anyone else? Freedom to serve v. be served, I suppose.

Ah, this is one of those areas where I've changed my mind! I used to believe that religious businesses such as bakers should be forced to bake cakes for same sex marriages, but then realised, the person could just go to a different bake shop. Forcing the baker to bake a cake for a wedding he does not approve of is infringing on religious freedom - but if the baker was allowed to refuse, the customer could simply go elsewhere and find another baker. I find it very hard to believe that every single bakery within reasonable distance of anyone is religious.

Think of it this way: if we can force Christian bakers to bake cakes for a same-sex wedding, can we then force a Muslim who works at a printing company to print a drawing of the Prophet Mohammed (PBUH)? Can we force a Hindu, like me, to cook meat for a certain event? Can we force Jews to sell leather during Yom Kippur? All of these scenarios could be easily avoided - if you want to print a drawing of the Prophet Mohammed (PBUH), just go to a non-Muslim printer. If you want someone to cook meat for a gathering, go to a non-Hindu chef. If you want to buy a leather bag during Yom Kippur, go to a non-Jewish clothes store owner.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: Bri MT on September 30, 2017, 05:19:10 pm
Yes, this is exactly what I mean - everybody will be forced to hold a certain view of a topic on which people should be free to develop their own opinions.

Schools, even religious ones, will be forced to teach transgender issues to children as young as 4 or 5, and even earlier in kindergarten, whether the parents agree to it or not. If you don't agree with teaching a four-year-old that girls can become boys and boys can become girls and people can be in between or neither, then you will have no say in your child being taught this at school.

Recently, parents of a five-year-old child were outraged after the child's kindergarten teacher performed a demonstration involving introducing "the student to the class as a boy and then he went to the bathroom and emerged dressed as a girl. The teacher reintroduced the student explaining that he was "now a girl."" Children were traumatised. ""My daughter came home crying and shaking so afraid she could turn into a boy," another parent said."

Washington State's New Health Education Law - http://www.k12.wa.us/HealthFitness/Standards/HPE-Standards.pdf.
Note, under the Kindergarten Age Group on page 29: "Understand there are many ways to express gender." Kids this age cannot even read, but are being taught about something as complex as gender to push this agenda. Children this young need to be learning their alphabet, not transgenderism.

Also, two parents have been left with no option but to pull their six year old son out of school to homeschool him after his school denied his parents the right to opt out of the transgenderism classes. (http://www.breitbart.com/london/2017/09/11/christian-parents-sue-school-six-year-old-change-gender-identity/).
"Mr. Rowe told The Sunday Times: “A child aged six would sometimes come to school as a girl or sometimes come to school as a boy. Our concerns were raised when our son came back home from school saying he was confused as to why and how a boy was now a girl.""

Also, the punishments are not an exaggeration.

For Bill C-16:
- "“If you try to disavow that theory, you can be brought before the Human Rights Commission for misgendering or potentially find yourself guilty of a hate crime. To sum up, on the subject of gender, we’re going to have government-mandated speech.”
Those who refuse to go along could be “brought before the federal tribunal,” Brown said.
If the tribunal assess a penalty such as a fine or “non-monetary remedy, such as a cease and desist order or an order to compel them to do something,” and the person refuses, “they will find themselves in contempt of court and prison is the likely outcome of that process until they purge the contempt.”"

- "Section 319(1) makes it a criminal offence to incite hatred against any identifiable group where this is likely to result in a breach of the peace. Section 319(2) makes it an offence to communicate, except in private conversation, statements that wilfully promote hatred against an identifiable group, whether by telephone, broadcasting or other audible or visible means." Meaning you could be talking to a friend about how you might not think Caitlyn Jenner is really a woman over the phone and you would be breaking the law. What if you're religious or don't believe that people can suddenly swap genders? Bye bye freedom, hello jail.

For Bill 89:
- "QP Briefing reports: “[Ontario’s Minister of Child and Family Services] Coteau said … that it could be abuse for an LGBT teen to be told their identity is wrong and they should change. ‘I would consider that a form of abuse, when a child identifies one way and a caregiver is saying no, you need to do this differently,’ he said. ‘If it’s abuse, and if it’s within the definition, a child can be removed from that environment and placed into protection where the abuse stops,’ he said.”"

Additionally, New York City's Discrimination Law can fine you for up to a hefty $250,000 dollars for misgendering someone, along with various other 'crimes'. Some are:
"-Repeatedly referring to a person by something other than their chosen title, such as “Mr.” or “Ms.” The policy doesn’t explicitly say how gender-neutral titles such as “Mx.” should be treated, though it is implied such titles must be used if a person desires it.
-Refusing to call a person by their chosen pronoun. Said pronouns not only include “he” and “she,” but also explicitly include gender-neutral ones such as “ze/hir,” if that is what they desire.
-Requiring a person to legally change their name before using their preferred alternative. For example, company may not insist on calling an employee John if he prefers Jane, even if John is his legal name.
-Requiring a person to prove they have begun gender transition treatment before referring to them by alternative pronouns, names, and titles."
"Ordinary violations of the guidelines can result in fines of up to $125,000, while offenses stemming from “willful, wanton, or malicious conduct” can incur fines of up to $250,000. In addition to these civil penalties, the commission may award an unlimited amount of compensatory damages to anybody deemed a victim of discrimination."
- it is extremely difficult to prove whether someone was intentionally discriminating or accidentally discriminating against a transgender person, hence the danger of this law. But even if it was an 'ordinary violation', you can say goodbye to $125,000.


Sources:
http://www1.cbn.com/cbnnews/us/2017/august/kindergarteners-scared-they-will-be-turned-into-boys-after-school-celebrates-transgender-transition
https://www.cbsnews.com/news/transgender-reveal-kindergarten-class-rocklin-academy-parents-upset/
https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/canadian-bill-opposing-transgenderism-will-put-you-in-jail
https://arpacanada.ca/news/2017/01/06/bill-89/
https://lop.parl.ca/About/Parliament/LegislativeSummaries/bills_ls.asp?Language=E&ls=c16&Parl=42&Ses=1&source=library_prb
http://dailycaller.com/2015/12/28/new-york-can-fine-you-250k-for-misgendering-somebody/
http://www.dailywire.com/news/6274/washington-state-will-now-teach-small-children-james-barrett
http://www.k12.wa.us/HealthFitness/Standards/HPE-Standards.pdf
http://www.breitbart.com/london/2017/09/11/christian-parents-sue-school-six-year-old-change-gender-identity/

I find it strange that you say "will" repeatedly, when there is no proof of a causative relationship.

I question why you think it is of great concern that a particular city in America requires people to address someone as the gender they identify with. Being told that your identity is wrong can be very damaging, which is what these measures are likely designed to protect against, but that isn't even the point of this survey.

In your post you discuss your fears regarding people being able to choose a gender identity that is different to the sex they were assigned at birth, but this isn't what the plebiscite is even asking. It asks about same sex marriage (only).


If your main argument against same sex marriage isn't related to same sex marriage I would ask you to consider why you are using it.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: geminii on September 30, 2017, 05:52:39 pm
I find it strange that you say "will" repeatedly, when there is no proof of a causative relationship.

I think appleandbee explained it pretty well, but here it is explained fully so you might understand it:
- Same sex marriage is legalised
- This makes it the norm for gay & lesbian couples to get married
- This means if you disagree with gay and lesbian marriages or relationships, that is not the norm
- Meaning if you hold those views, you are an outsider
- If you are an outsider in terms of the views you hold, voicing those opinions more often than not results in backlash (any unpopular opinion is sure to be shut down by the majority)
- This limits freedom of speech, as you cannot say that you disagree with something for fear of being shut down...and criminally prosecuted, and possibly thrown in jail
- With same sex marriage out of the way, the left will attempt to find something else to fight against, and as is the case with Canada, they are likely to turn to transgenderism issues
- Transgenderism issues are likely to be treated in the same way as same sex marriage, and laws such as the ones I've mentioned are liikely to be enacted and put in place
- As a result of these new transgenderism laws, people who disagree with transgenderism are unable to voice their opinions as they are once again the minority and are outsiders...it is not irrational to conclude that transgenderism is treated differently to SSM...so people are, again, criminally prosecuted, fined, and maybe even thrown in jail.
- Hence, freedom of speech is impacted.

(Note - I didn't use 'will' anywhere in my answer. Hope you're happy, but I don't understand why using the word 'will' was such a big problem)

I question why you think it is of great concern that a particular city in America requires people to address someone as the gender they identify with. Being told that your identity is wrong can be very damaging, which is what these measures are likely designed to protect against, but that isn't even the point of this survey.

If you can provide me evidence of this, I will be happy to concede.
As for why I think enacting a law making it a criminal offense to misgender someone is a bad idea, I said it in my post, so you would have seen it already if you read my post:
"Ordinary violations of the guidelines can result in fines of up to $125,000, while offenses stemming from “willful, wanton, or malicious conduct” can incur fines of up to $250,000. In addition to these civil penalties, the commission may award an unlimited amount of compensatory damages to anybody deemed a victim of discrimination."[/i] - it is extremely difficult to prove whether someone was intentionally discriminating or accidentally discriminating against a transgender person, hence the danger of this law. But even if it was an 'ordinary violation', meaning accidental, you can say goodbye to $125,000.

In your post you discuss your fears regarding people being able to choose a gender identity that is different to the sex they were assigned at birth, but this isn't what the plebiscite is even asking. It asks about same sex marriage (only).

I know. I am talking about the possible ramifications of allowing same-sex marriage, not about the same-sex marriage itself.

If your main argument against same sex marriage isn't related to same sex marriage I would ask you to consider why you are using it.

Again, I urge you to read my post thoroughly. I am talking about the possible consequences of allowing same-sex marriage to be legalised, not about same-sex marriage directly. When we are discussing whether or not something should be legalised, it is important to look at the consequences.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: Bri MT on September 30, 2017, 08:01:56 pm
I think appleandbee explained it pretty well, but here it is explained fully so you might understand it:
- Same sex marriage is legalised
- This makes it the norm for gay & lesbian couples to get married
- This means if you disagree with gay and lesbian marriages or relationships, that is not the norm
- Meaning if you hold those views, you are an outsider
- If you are an outsider in terms of the views you hold, voicing those opinions more often than not results in backlash (any unpopular opinion is sure to be shut down by the majority)
- This limits freedom of speech, as you cannot say that you disagree with something for fear of being shut down...and criminally prosecuted, and possibly thrown in jail
- With same sex marriage out of the way, the left will attempt to find something else to fight against, and as is the case with Canada, they are likely to turn to transgenderism issues
- Transgenderism issues are likely to be treated in the same way as same sex marriage, and laws such as the ones I've mentioned are liikely to be enacted and put in place
- As a result of these new transgenderism laws, people who disagree with transgenderism are unable to voice their opinions as they are once again the minority and are outsiders...it is not irrational to conclude that transgenderism is treated differently to SSM...so people are, again, criminally prosecuted, fined, and maybe even thrown in jail.
- Hence, freedom of speech is impacted.

(Note - I didn't use 'will' anywhere in my answer. Hope you're happy, but I don't understand why using the word 'will' was such a big problem)
The word will was used in your first, your second sentence, and your third sentence. The reason why I picked up on it, as I have stated, is because "will" implies causality when I do not believe that such causality exists.
Opinion polls show that most Australians believe that same sex marriage should be legalised, so I would suggest that you those who disagree are already "outsiders". Can you show me something which points to legislation where if you say "I do not believe same sex marriage should occur" you could be thrown in jail?

"- With same sex marriage out of the way, the left will attempt to find something else to fight against, and as is the case with Canada, they are likely to turn to transgenderism issues"
-"the left" are already fighting against multiple things including Australia Day being on the 26th of January, the Adani coal mine, increases to the student contribution amount, and indigenous Australians having disproportionate jail time. I doubt that is a set number of discrete issues that they focus on at a time, and that the next issue is the sequence is likely to be transgender rights.
-What makes them likely to follow Canada's example?

"- Transgenderism issues are likely to be treated in the same way as same sex marriage, and laws such as the ones I've mentioned are liikely to be enacted and put in place"
-I highly doubt that they would be treated similarly to SSM for a number of reasons including:
-Less people are transgender than same-sex attracted
-Less Australians are familiar with the transgender community than the LGB community
-There seems to be more fear around transgender people, and less empathy for transgender people
-I highly doubt our majority conservative government would enact laws resulting in people being "criminally prosecuted, fined, and maybe even thrown in jail."

If you can provide me evidence of this, I will be happy to concede.
As for why I think enacting a law making it a criminal offense to misgender someone is a bad idea, I said it in my post, so you would have seen it already if you read my post:
I know. I am talking about the possible ramifications of allowing same-sex marriage, not about the same-sex marriage itself.
https://www.humanrights.gov.au/education/face-facts/face-facts-lesbian-gay-bisexual-trans-and-intersex-people
http://www.lgbtihealth.org.au/sites/default/files/Cultural%20Competancy%20Framework.pdf   (go to page 7)
https://www.beyondblue.org.au/who-does-it-affect/lesbian-gay-bi-trans-and-intersex-lgbti-people/the-impact-of-discrimination

"[/i] - it is extremely difficult to prove whether someone was intentionally discriminating or accidentally discriminating against a transgender person, hence the danger of this law."   I think there's a simple solution to this, don't discriminate intentionally or accidentally. Just refer to people using language that matches their gender identity.
See also: "9.1          In criminal trials, the prosecution bears the burden of proof. This has been called ‘the golden thread of English criminal law’[1] and, in Australia, ‘a cardinal principle of our system of justice’.[2] This principle and the related principle that guilt must be proved beyond reasonable doubt are fundamental to the presumption of innocence.[3]."  https://www.alrc.gov.au/publications/common-law-principle

Again, I urge you to read my post thoroughly. I am talking about the possible consequences of allowing same-sex marriage to be legalised, not about same-sex marriage directly. When we are discussing whether or not something should be legalised, it is important to look at the consequences.

Given that we have different perspectives on this, I understand that it is easy for messages to be misinterpreted and that this may create the perception that I didn't read the post thoroughly. However, I assure you that I did read (and reread) your post to understand your points as best I could.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: Bennie_Boy on September 30, 2017, 08:10:03 pm
(Note - I didn't use 'will' anywhere in my answer. Hope you're happy, but I don't understand why using the word 'will' was such a big problem)

It's a problem to use language like 'will' because it implies that something is definitely going to occur as a consequence of legalising SSM, which you of course can't be sure of.

- This limits freedom of speech, as you cannot say that you disagree with something for fear of being shut down...and criminally prosecuted, and possibly thrown in jail

Except it doesn't, because legislating for SSM doesn't simultaneously mean that people who express opposing views are liable to be 'thrown in jail' (we're still just talking about SSM at this point in your explanation). Of course everyone will still have the freedom to hold those views, just as others will have the freedom to judge people based on whether or not they disagree, and again there's no legal limitation placed on people expressing their opinion.

If you're arguing that people will just feel like they don't want to say they don't like SSM because of possible backlash from those around them, then that's just a product of society progressing. I'm sure people who were against interracial marriage (or the abolition of slavery, or women voting etc etc) felt like they didn't want to express opposing views after it was changed, but we can't just not have any societal change ever because of the feelings of people who hold the minority view.

- With same sex marriage out of the way, the left will attempt to find something else to fight against, and as is the case with Canada, they are likely to turn to transgenderism issues

I'll put forward my arguments against the rest of your points below, however arguing that 'the left' moves from one social issue to the next collectively, and that the legalisation of SSM will also lead to the enactment of other laws relating to transgender issues without further debate within society (as if they aren't being debated right now, and wouldn't continue to be debated in the future regardless of the outcome of this postal survey), seems like a pretty disingenuous slippery slope.

- As a result of these new transgenderism laws, people who disagree with transgenderism are unable to voice their opinions as they are once again the minority and are outsiders...it is not irrational to conclude that transgenderism is treated differently to SSM...so people are, again, criminally prosecuted, fined, and maybe even thrown in jail.

Reading into one of the 'new transgenderism laws' that you brought up (C-16) led me to the Canadian Bar Association's response to it, which can be found here: https://www.cba.org/News-Media/News/2017/May/CBA-position-on-Bill-C-16. In it they argue:
"Recently, the debate has turned to whether the amendments will force individuals to embrace concepts, even use pronouns, which they find objectionable. This is a misunderstanding of human rights and hate crimes legislation."

On the debate as a whole being shut down if the law was enacted, the CBA cites the Supreme Court of Canada (Saskatchewan (Human Rights Commission) v. Whatcott):
"The distinction between the expression of repugnant ideas and expression which exposes groups to hatred is crucial to understanding the proper application of hate speech prohibitions. Hate speech legislation is not aimed at discouraging repugnant or offensive ideas. It does not, for example, prohibit expression which debates the merits of reducing the rights of vulnerable groups in society. It only restricts the use of expression exposing them to hatred as a part of that debate. It does not target the ideas, but their mode of expression in public and the effect that this mode of expression may have."

On the other law from NYC, you seem to ignore the use of words such as "repeatedly referring to a person.." or "refusing to call a person..." when you argue that "it is extremely difficult to prove whether someone was intentionally discriminating or accidentally discriminating against a transgender person, hence the danger of this law. But even if it was an 'ordinary violation', meaning accidental, you can say goodbye to $125,000". The law is clearly designed to protect individuals from continual harassment based on their gender identity, as opposed to someone accidentally referring to a trans person by the wrong pronoun and the trans person going "haha got you now!!!". Intentionally or accidentally misrepresenting the law in this way seems to come across as just scaremongering.

If you can provide me evidence of this, I will be happy to concede.

"Social dysphoria can describe distress and discomfort that occurs as a result of how one is viewed by society. Assuming a person’s gender, using incorrect pronouns, or making assumptions about social roles in relation to gender can all be factors contributing to a person’s experience of social dysphoria." https://www.goodtherapy.org/learn-about-therapy/issues/gender-dysphoria
Although there are bound to be many other sources for this, as constantly triggering someone's dysphoria by referring to them as a gender they don't identify as would seem pretty distressing.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: boooom on October 18, 2017, 07:11:08 pm
Sorry for the random tangent, but what happens if the current postal plebiscite comes out with a majority yes vote? Has the government promised to do anything?
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: A TART on October 18, 2017, 07:16:33 pm
Sorry for the random tangent, but what happens if the current postal plebiscite comes out with a majority yes vote? Has the government promised to do anything?

If it recieves a majority yes vote, it will pass into parliament.

I honestly think the survey is a waste of money (even if I disagree with SSM) given the statistics from other sources. (making it non-binding makes it even worse. Poor trees)
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: elysepopplewell on October 18, 2017, 08:28:31 pm
If it comes back a "no" then as Malcolm Turnbull has said, it will be off the agenda within the Coalition government.

There has been no word to say that a YES vote will be binding, or will be definitely considered. There is every legal likelihood that a YES vote would be dismissed as a statistic instead of it being moved through Parliament.

Given some of the commentary lately, like that from Peter Dutton talking about getting a move on to make laws to protect the things people are worried about losing if two consenting adults get married, I'd suggest that the government is ready to say "alright, let's do it." But based on the government's movements otherwise, I'm not at all confident that a YES result will be taken as indicatively as a no result. Sadly.

PS. TWO MORE DAYS TO ORDER YOUR REPLACEMENT SURVEYS IF YOURS HAS BEEN LOST, DAMAGED, EATEN BY A DOG, ETC.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: vox nihili on October 20, 2017, 10:01:16 pm
If it comes back a "no" then as Malcolm Turnbull has said, it will be off the agenda within the Coalition government.

There has been no word to say that a YES vote will be binding, or will be definitely considered. There is every legal likelihood that a YES vote would be dismissed as a statistic instead of it being moved through Parliament.

Given some of the commentary lately, like that from Peter Dutton talking about getting a move on to make laws to protect the things people are worried about losing if two consenting adults get married, I'd suggest that the government is ready to say "alright, let's do it." But based on the government's movements otherwise, I'm not at all confident that a YES result will be taken as indicatively as a no result. Sadly.

PS. TWO MORE DAYS TO ORDER YOUR REPLACEMENT SURVEYS IF YOURS HAS BEEN LOST, DAMAGED, EATEN BY A DOG, ETC.

Some of these concerns are very, very unlikely.

You're certainly right that a yes vote will not be binding within the Liberal party; however, it will pass. There are probably just enough votes already if it goes to a conscience vote (which it will if yes comes up) and there would certainly be opponents of SSM who would vote yes if a yes vote were returned.

I think the biggest stumbling block will be the details of the legislation to allow SSM. Opponents of SSM may use debate around provisions for the protection of religious freedom as a "principled" reason to continue to oppose SSM. The government will also likely delay, up to a point, bringing such a Bill to parliament until the details of it have been fleshed out within the party.

At the end of the day though, any significant delay to the legalisation of SSM after the return of a yes vote will cause enormous trouble for the Liberal party. This issue only serves to highlight how utterly bizarre a large chunk of the Liberal party is and how inconsistent the views of their parliamentary members are with the views of those who voted for them. Any delay will just see them bleed votes, which isn't great when you're already anaemic.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: elysepopplewell on October 22, 2017, 07:30:27 pm
Some of these concerns are very, very unlikely.

You're certainly right that a yes vote will not be binding within the Liberal party; however, it will pass. There are probably just enough votes already if it goes to a conscience vote (which it will if yes comes up) and there would certainly be opponents of SSM who would vote yes if a yes vote were returned.

I think the biggest stumbling block will be the details of the legislation to allow SSM. Opponents of SSM may use debate around provisions for the protection of religious freedom as a "principled" reason to continue to oppose SSM. The government will also likely delay, up to a point, bringing such a Bill to parliament until the details of it have been fleshed out within the party.

At the end of the day though, any significant delay to the legalisation of SSM after the return of a yes vote will cause enormous trouble for the Liberal party. This issue only serves to highlight how utterly bizarre a large chunk of the Liberal party is and how inconsistent the views of their parliamentary members are with the views of those who voted for them. Any delay will just see them bleed votes, which isn't great when you're already anaemic.

Yes, I completely agree with what you've said! And am a special fan of that great analogy at the end.
Title: Re: Should religious have a say in the same sex debate?
Post by: vox nihili on October 25, 2017, 12:00:32 pm
Yes, I completely agree with what you've said! And am a special fan of that great analogy at the end.

HAHA glad someone noticed...I was pleasantly surprised I came up with that one :p



For those wondering, we should know about the outcome of the plebiscite in a few weeks (Nov 15).