Please tell me if I'm right. Lets say if a car collides with another car the momentum of car 2 is the same momentum as it was with car 1.
Not necessarily.
So car 1's momentum will be given by

, let's set m_1 to be it's mass, and u to be it's initial velocity.

Car 2's momentum will be given by

The principle of conservation of momentum is that the
total momentum of the system will remain constant, that is:


Momentum isn't going to escape from our system.
So the total initial momentum in this system is given by

So then the collision happens, and the velocity of the vehicles change etc. The new velocities are denoted 'v'.

So we can go back to the principle of conservation of momentum, and conclude that:

If you add up p1 and p2 at any time, the total value should remain the same.
If you think in terms of Newton's Third Law, that is if you exert a force on an object, it will exert a force with equal magnitude in the opposite direction. We have our cars moving with a whatever driving force and then they collide.

(force is the rate of change of momentum). If force is increased, momentum is increased etc.
Car 1 exerts a force upon Car 2. Let's say this causes Car 2 to be pushed forward, i.e. it has speed up a bit. So the momentum of Car 2 increases by some amount. Note that the momentum

does not become the value of

, since

, force is equal to the
rate of change of momentum.


Newton's Third Law. During the reaction, Car 2 exerts force,
equal in magnitude but in an
opposing direction, upon Car 1. The momentum of Car 1 decreases by the amount that momentum of car 2 increased. That is, Car 1 slows down a bit after the reaction. Note that this doesn't imply that the objects will have equal accelerations, the changes in velocity may very well be unequal.
If you have more than 2 objects in your system, you have to adjust slightly for that. If you're not yet convinced of Newton's laws, you might want to spend some time thinking about them. Also note that what'll happen (increases, decreases) will depend on the situation. Try playing around with assigning values.
Let's say take what you said and try and apply it:
Please tell me if I'm right. Lets say if a car collides with another car the momentum of car 2 is the same momentum as it was with car 1.
What you've said is that

So due to conservation of momentum, we know that these two statements will be true:


or more concisely stated as

This is also only in an isolated system, where there are no other forces to mess with things.
So what you've said is



We can see that this value won't always be equal to zero, which means that conservation of momentum is violated. This will be when

or

has a value, which it will if car 2 is moving at the start or if car 1 is still moving by the end (no violation if car 2 is initially stationary, or if car 1 is finally stationary).