Sorry, coming in late...
"Important things don't warrant impoliteness."
a) The point I was making was that it's not a matter of politeness or impoliteness. Regardless of how you phrase it, people are going to take offense.
b) Factually incorrect. Is it important to subdue and arrest an armed robber? Is it polite to deck them and put them in handcuffs? Would you call any retaliatory action in war polite? These are just two important things where politeness is not "warranted", or more accurately, not a meaningful descriptor of the required action.
a) I disagree with you - sure, some people might take offence no matter how it's phrased. I happen to not be one of those people. Already, I have enjoyed reading this thread much more than previous religion threads, because no ones been criticizing each other. In short, since it matters to some, we may as well be polite anyway for their sake.
b) there's a key difference between that scenario and the one on AN. If you ask an armed robber to kindly drop his weapons and turn himself in, you're not going to be very successful. So the force is necessary. Here, it is neither necessary, nor productive to use force like that. It's certainly not "required action"
I haven't been firm with anyone until kp's post because he was being disingenuous.
If you ask an armed robber to kindly drop his weapons and turn himself in, you're not going to be very successful
And I would say that "kindly" asking somebody to consider that everything they have learnt in their life for all time is wrong is also ineffective.
There is no need to be anything but abrupt in firmly saying "No, this is wrong". It's not polite or impolite. It's not the difference between "Excuse me sir, but I do believe that you are suffering from a mental delusion." or "You are deluded."
It's very simply about saying that your beliefs do not square with the facts and not only are they wrong, they are quite patently dangerous.
I also want to address some of the frankly ludicrous points you brought up in the previous thread.
im actually super super happy with this - valid points, without aggressive personal attacks.
We've been over this. I didn't attack you, or anyone else personally. I attacked your beliefs. You TOOK it personally, but that is entirely on you. Stop claiming I attacked you personally. You are lying.
yes, people have innate morality, and no, scripture cant come out and set everyone straight.
Then why call it a holy guide book to live by? Surely if it's the divine word of god, it shouldn't be so challenging to follow it and live a good, moral life...
of course religion is supernatural - if you accept that some almighty god exists, then of course its going to be supernatural. does that make it false? no.
It makes it completely unverifiable. And, yes, when it starts making claims that are clearly false it too is demonstrated to be false. Stone the gays. What moral edict is that? Instructions on how to keep slaves? Instructions on how to kill heretics. This is not a benevolent, all-loving god. This is a capriciously malevolent bully (to quote DickDawk).
why do people interpret things differently? i think many interpretations are simply wrong. with abortion:
Do you not know that you are the temple of God and that the Spirit of God dwells in you? 1corinthians 3:16.
from a purely christian perspective, abortion is wrong. i dont think its possible to argue the opposite, and i find this to be true in many other moral cases.
Except that holding up a book and saying "SEE! IT SAYS IT HERE!" doesn't cut it. I have a napkin which says that I'm the son of god. Who are you to say that's wrong? It's a supernatural claim, so obviously it can't be wrong... Now bow to me.
so now, i will tell you what i told you before. religion should not be judged by what its followers do.
So, now I will tell you what I told you before. Given that there is not a lick of credible evidence that god exists, it has EVERYTHING to do with its effects on its followers. And your religion has a lot to answer for. Just think of all the atheists that burned alive in the last 2000 years because of your religion. You should feel ashamed.
all the stoning and killing and murder is in the old testament - which is no longer applicable and exists to show the contrast between before salvation and after. that is universally understood, which is why no sane person would stone anybody else in the name of christianity.
Why did the catholic church burn heretics?