I don't know how the market in Victoria is in comparison to NSW, but I'll give my Sydney perspective.
So I live in West Sydney, and there's a train line which goes all the way from 5 minutes away from my house, to the CBD. That train journey takes one and a half hours, but the frequency of the trains is 30 minutes. I'm more or less at the foot of the Blue Mountains, you go back much further and you begin you to ascend. So although my commute on the train is 3 hours daily, and my walking time to and from Uni/work in CBD is about 10 mins, and my driving time from home to the station is only five mins, so let's put that at 3 hours and 15 minutes of commute - the frequency of the trains means that I rarely finish Uni and hop on a train, often I'm waiting at the station (either side) for 25 minutes or so because my work/uni finishing time doesn't coordinate with the train time table. So some days: 4 hours of my life is dealing with a commute.
This would be fine if the trains weren't incredibly overcrowded. But usually on my peak hour trips (unavoidable), I'm standing for at least half an hour on the way back and can't do any work on my computer. Fortunately, I live at the end of the line, so in the morning I always get a seat (great time to be on ATAR Notes).
So, I've looked at places closer to the city! Even places to rent, just for now, just to fulfil curiosity. And I haven't even bothered looking anywhere that has within an hour commute, there's no point. I looked at places in the Hills District, which is about 25 minutes drive from my current house and uses the same train line as me. It means it's an hour to and from the city. Great, so my commute is cut by an hour - that's decent. I've looked at house prices, and they're about 40% more than what they are where I live, which is already not a very good market.
So, I've avoided the part of this discussion that talks about inflation and what not because I don't have a solution, just adding anecdote to commuting NOT being a solution. My commute is long, often packed, usually pretty depressing, and it actually gives me a lot of negative energy to be sitting like a sardine for 3 hours a day with everyone in dreary suits and smelly armpits. I get home, completely knackered, and that surprises me since three hours of my day is literally doing nothing - it's just not a good environment to be doing nothing in.
As for what we should do with our money: of all my "close" friends (maybe a group of 30), I only know one that actually lives a properly lavish lifestyle and then complains about house prices lol. I'm lucky enough to have 7 best friends, and everyone works at least two jobs, two work full time and the rest of us study, and for most of my friends the thought is kind of "I'm working hard now so when I want to buy a house, hopefully I have a shot at it, but I'm not actually looking at the market because that's depressing." I also have a lot of friends who left school for trades in Year 10 (this is really common in the area I'm in), and lots of them are starting to buy houses now (with loans of course), and I'm really happy for them. The narrative of not being able to afford houses somewhat ironically hits the University students the most, I think, because the full time wage for Uni students begins later in life, whereas my friends are finished their apprenticeships now and are on really impressive wages, and I'm only in my second year of Uni, working two jobs!
An hollaaa, I'm overseas and the cost of living here is really cheap in comparison, I think. But this has only really been made possible for me to do because I've worked minimum 10 hours a week (during school, more after school obvs) since I was 14. At the time, I wanted a job because I wanted something else to do, everyone was getting their first jobs, it's a fun time, etc. But now I'm thankful that I was getting a tight little $100 a week back then, because I didn't have anything else to spend it on really, so it's sat in my savings. And now I get to have an incredible experience, which I likely wouldn't have done if it weren't for having some savings to make me feel financially comfortable enough to take on this whole thing. Outside of my exchange though, now I have real life expenses to pay for that I didn't have when I was 14, so back then money was sitting in my savings for a while, whereas now my money is in a pretty fluid situation of coming in and then flying out lol.