umm.. I haven't read everything thoroughly, but I think most of the things that have been said are irrelevant. Especially for reactivity: I've touched and handled solid NaOH before (in fact, a whole bucket of NaOH pellets), it's not that bad, it was just a bitch to wash off. Moreso, NaOH has got almost nothing to do with Na(s).
Usually, only primary standards are prepared from using an accurate mass. NaOH is not a primary standard because solid NaOH absorbs water (as moisture in air), it also absorbs CO2 in the atmosphere to form hydrogen carbonate.
Hence, standard (read: accurate concentration) NaOH cannot be prepared directly from solid, a primary standard must be prepared first and titrated against the NaOH prepared from solid to work out the accurate concentration. I.e. you must standardize the NaOH solution before it can be considered a standard solution. Compare this to primary standards, which do not require the standardization step since their accurate concentration can be calculated directly from the mass of the solids dissolved. The concentration of NaOH can sometimes be 10% lower than expected value (i.e. you expect a 0.1M solution and it turns out to be 0.09M)