As someone raised by a set of Chinese parents, this really is unusual(? I can't find the right word).
I've never had any kind of experience like this.
I play music because I want to. I play piano, because it's fun and sounds nice. I play flute because I thought it looked cool.
I want to become a biomedical engineer. My parents don't care what I do, as long as I earn enough to live.
I've done school musicals, I learn martial arts and I enjoy surfing.
I do well at school, but not because my parents want me to, but because my friends expect me to. And I hate disappointing myself when I know I can do better.
I've never been told off for my grades.
I've scanned through some of the links posted, and while intriguing, I felt disconcerted by how Asian parents were being portrayed. I guess I'm lucky.
Sorry for ranting, this just got a strong response from me emotionally.