Great post periwinkle.
But I want to stress, about tecahers pushing kids.
Let me tell you a short story
I see myself as a good student, completes all homework, get the marks I want, and have won several subject awards *end cockiness
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However, when I say teachers should push, you REALLY just have to see how some teachers do not push because they really dont give a dam! Not because "its up to the student", there is a fine line! I have been fortunate to not come across many such teachers, I am just saying I feel sorry for the kids who DO need a light push to get going but DON'T GET IT, and once they recieve it THEY KEEP GOING automatically (which is good).
Yes I know at Uni teachers don't push you, and thats OKAY, I am just saying teachers could at least tell you off for not doing homework, threaten to contact your parents, etc. Otherwise, they are just FEEDING the cycle of laziness amongst students.
At Uni, I understand tutors are advised to help those who are putting in the effort, and I support this.
One of my teachers in class;
*did not give us ANY homework in the whole year
*Not ONCE gave a "lesson" i.e. TALKED/EXPLAINED on the board
*Never wrote board notes
*Never conducted activites
They only gave us the option of buying a textbook, or photocopying for us.
I struggled big time in that class, the teacher did not give a dam how we went, and not being provided a head start/homework was ridicilous. Now I can already se people saying "oh if you were truly deidcated u woudl ASK for homwork"
But can you guys see what you are saying! IT IS THE TEACHERS JOB, not MINE to chase after them/obtain homework. Pretend I agree with you on this stance, well what expalins them NOT GIVING A LESSON/ TEACHING. They just sat at their desk for the whole YEAR, never walked around seeing if we need help.
I know my previous posts may have seemed vague, but it was because I had experineced it.
To conclude, I ended up being lazy for that subject, on class. And at home I merely summarised the entire "textbook". I handed in a few essays, some which were never given back =.=*.
I, did at leats put some effort in, because I enjoyed the subject, but not the class. WHta my point is, we had a really small class of people who ENJOYED learning, isn't it bad that because of the situation, they didn't really try to excel/succeed/ work/learn because of the predicament? Yes, they could have self taught themselves, but why? I will never agree with anyone who says we should be required to do this. Like try and out urself outside of the contetx of the vcenotes.com community, tehre are thousands of students who do not use this site, and are really bright, but they need a PUSH. Let me make clear, I am talking about the smart people who need a push, not the lazy people, who have no interest in education. We, in this communtiy I think fall under those who are bright, and excel themselves by utilizing this wonderful resource!
I think this anecdote highlights what I am trying to say about teachers pushing you. This situation IMO is RARE in the midst of things, but yeah.