michael, i'm afraid the only way you're going to get handouts is if you move out of home and somehow count yourself as independant. My parents combined income is barely $60K, and last time i checked i was WAY over the limit. (i was considering moving out and found that you cannot possibly live off youth allowance and still maintain a "cool" lifestyle, even when i counted sharing rent with friends)
if the combined income of your parents is over $100K, i say tough. If your parents cannot support you, then your family has some serious issues about how you manage your income. Maybe you should consult brendan for more advice as to how you as well as your family should be saving money to put to use on better things (such as education).
and brendan is being his normal self, he helps in the way that he thinks best, if you keep on insisting that he is not helping (or working against helping), when clearly he is giving his honest opinions, you are really trying to pick a fight on him. I must advice that an argument of those kind is highly dangerous
you dont have a job, and your parents are refusing to help you, my honest opinion is they are probably sick of letting you live of their silver platter.
maybe it's time you start tightening your belt and let go of luxuries that you can live without. make your purchases on essential things, there is no point on spending the money you dont have, and there is even less point complaining about it.
and, maybe look harder for a job, i'm sure you havent considered absolutely every option
oh, and a side note, getting taxpayer's money to support your lunch money when you dont work and pay tax... that is low, maybe you should say sorry to taxpayers amongst us first. I certainly wish my money does not flow your way, not even a cent.