Nina, I'm not saying that we should take a soft approach and let them get away with it, I'm saying that we should let the courts decide what is appropriate, and then afterwards, society should help them become better people. This is what we want, we don't want to
punish them, we want them to change their ways.
I think that it's not about them understanding the consequences of their actions but rather them understanding that it is hurtful towards other people and them developing sympathy for others. I'll use a personal example, I used to really hate this guy, so me and a few friends played pranks on him, it wasn't anything
bad it was just practical jokes, I knew there were consequences, I knew I'd get detentions if I was caught, but did I really care? No, I just tried to hide and avoid being caught. So why did I stop? I stopped because I thought about it and I understood what I was doing wasn't right and that I was hurting him, it was a joke to us, but it wasn't appreciated from his perspective. (Yes, I had a process by which I came to that realisation, but that's not important)
Now, I don't think it's fair that parents have to know everything that their kids are up to. I know that if I were to go and taunt people on the bus, my parents wouldn't have a clue, as long as I act normally at home. So it's not always fair to blame the parents.
I'm not saying anything can justify this abuse, but I'm just saying we don't know everything about what has happenned. And yes, I know that was an appeal to pity/sympathy, and I know they knew what they were doing, but it doesn't justify us ruining their future now does it? I feel sympathy for them because I understand that they have the potential to change. I do feel sympathy for the victim, I never said I didn't.
I'm not saying that's OK, I'm saying, what they did isn't an isolated case, it just so happens that this gets internet attention because it went viral on youtube. But I'm definately not saying they should be let off scot-free. What I'm emphasising is that we shouldn't be taking out vigilante justice and we should let the courts decide what happens to them.
86, my point is that it's a video on Youtube, it's evidence but it's not the be-all-and-end-all. However, my main point is still that we can't commit vigilante justice, it's not right for us to be doing this.
Umm, how is it discrimination in the workforce, elaborate?
I'm not saying we shouldn't punish criminals for their crimes, where did I ever say that? I'm just saying punishment alone has no tangible effect, it's part of a solution but not the whole solution. What they need is help, they need to change their beliefs and their ways.
Anon1, yes, that's what I'm saying too
