Prove that lim x->3 x^2 = 9

when

The book factors the expression
Then it says that if we can find a positive constant C, then we can write

It then goes on to say we can make

by taking

^ What does it mean 'make

' by moving the constant over to the other side? If they wrote it like that, then doesn't it already mean that they've chosen some C such that the expression on the LHS is less than epsilon?
Also, I don't understand the motivation for finding the constant C and doing the above. Is it just to try and get the expression into the form

?
Then after that, it says we can find a number C if we restrict x to lie in some interval centered at 3. Since we are interested only in values that are close to 3, it is reasonable to assume that x is within a distance 1 from 3' - is that just a random small number they chose? is 1 the standard to be chosen in similar limit problems?
So that leads to

Then that leads to

, thus

. Does that expression mean that we only care that

is less than

, not what the valid values of x are?
So then they choose

remembering that

but there are two restrictions on


and

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So

….they show that the

works and they choose

and get


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so for the limit to work, you need to use 2 different deltas simulatenously or something? this is rather confusing as the steps seem a bit random to me
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also, when they prove
 = 7)
, and they use

, they did
07| = |4x-12|=4|x-3| < 4\delta)
^ is

simply because

and the inequality's just been multiplied by 4?
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