Here's what I do when planning for an essay.
1. Read the prompt more than once.
2. Highlight and define key words
3. Turn the prompt/topic into a series of little questions and into one 'full picture' question
For example, the keywords in your prompt are 'conflict' and 'no clear winners'. Now that you've identified that, you need to define it. What does conflict mean? How does one engage in conflict?
Do 'clear winners' mean that nobody wins or that both people learn from said conflict and then in turn improve their understanding of the situation/themselves and their identity?
Is it just situations of conflict that produce 'no clear winners'?
Is winning so important when dealing in situations of conflict?
Basically, think of it this way: an essay topic or a prompt is like a series of 30 or more questions incorporated into the one question; and that it is your job to unpack these questions and discuss them. Obviously I don't know your text but hopefully I've been some help. (: Good luck!