Okay, I'm going to assume you're serious and not just trolling.
Isn't the purpose of marriage to ensure that people are more inclined to look after your joint children and stay in a relationship with further legal force behind the union? You can love all you want even if you are not married.
As there is no biological premise as far as I know for gay couples to have children - and any adopted will be exposed to a culture of prejudice against there parents and therefore likely harassed, teased etc (and thus more morally 'bad' for them to adopt in California - why should they get married legally anyway?
So infertile couples, old couples past reproduction age, etc. shouldn't get married either because they cannot have children?
Marriage is merely a symbol of a couple's commitment to each other. You're dictating whether a couple can get married or not based on whether your predictions of whether their children are going to be bullied.
That's like saying two African-Americans shouldn't get married in the Deep South because their children might be harrassed. Or that Aboriginals shouldn't have children because in some areas of Australia there is a culture of prejudice against them. Why should they have to pander to the outdated and bigoted views of other people?
If they aren't going to stay in a relationship hypothetical, then why are they getting married then either? Creates more bureaucratic work, hardship and is detrimental to the overall well being of society in the worst case scenario.
Who said they weren't going to stay in a relationship? If you want to talk about inability to commit to a relationship, may I direct you to Britney Spears' 55 hour marriage? Heterosexuals do not exactly have the best track record in this area. In 2007, 47 963 divorces were granted in Australia. 49.3% of those involved children. (
http://www.abs.gov.au/ausstats/[email protected]/mf/3307.0.55.001)
In your haste to "think of the children!" you appear to have overlooked this point. By your logic, heterosexual marriages shouldn't be allowed either, because it "creates more bureaucratic work, hardship and is detrimental to the overall well being of society". Not to mention the immense emotional hardship inflicted upon all those poor children caught in (heterosexual!) divorces!
In the best case scenario there are no benefits except somewhere it says they are married and can feel good about it (which they could do if they felt like feeling that way anyway).
The same can be said for heterosexual marriage, especially those which do not produce children.
There is a similar premise to why the mixed race couple should be denied marriage with exception to the biological argument.
I'm morbidly fascinated. What exactly is your argument here?