I recall (yet again) this post from a girl at another online community
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For all those about to embark on the path that is year 12, I offer my advice. It is only to say that there are many ways to seemingly succeed in life. There are hundreds of emotions that may drive you to work this year. Jealousy, fear, passion, competition…all can drive us to push our limits, to become more than we once were. Some may believe that a high ENTER is in itself an achievement. But we must ask ourselves: what is success? It is simply the attainment of our goals. What fuels our goals? Are we simply led to seek excellence in VCE by a fear of failure, a desire to triumph against our foes or something else?
If our dreams are not founded on true passion, then success can only be hollow. The relief in realising one’s parents’ dreams can never compare to the thrill of realising our own desires. The relief in becoming the best does not bring happiness.
As you embark on year 12, I ask you to no longer think of what you want to achieve this year, but why you want to achieve it. A high ENTER is in itself but a small tool in the journey of life.
This year, do not waste hours procrastinating over homework, avoiding obligations. Spend these hours finding your passion. Let it drive you to work, to realise your own dream. Let the VCE become but a stepping stone to your dream, and not a dream in itself. Excellent results can and will unlock doors. Do you want these doors unlocked? Where do you want to go in life? It is very easy to aim for a number, but following a dream takes true courage.
Do not be afraid of failure in the eyes of others. Real failure is a life wasted in fear, in missed opportunities, in regret.
Think of where you wish to be in 10 months time. What do you want? Don’t waste this year. Don’t waste your opportunity to prepare for a great future. Don’t waste your opportunity to live.
Remember that this year is but one year. The key to making it amazing is balance. How does each activity you do contribute to who you what to be? How does every hour you spend make you into the person you dream of being?
A part time job will look great on a resume, but don’t forget that employers like tertiary education. Studying may seem important now, but it is your friends that you will remember, and not how to write a text essay. Don’t forget your own health, both physical and emotional, in the quest for a ranking.
Someone once said that we should all dance through life. Dancing is fun, but not always easy. If you want a high ENTER there is but one very simple path. Hard work. Study consistently and you will succeed. But don’t lose sight of the bigger picture; find your passion, your dream. Otherwise the hard work will be futile, for no number can bring lasting joy. Happiness is found in friendships, in relationships, in realising our dreams. That is true success. Work hard and let the VCE help you achieve your dream career. Yet always remember that the true measure of a successful life is found, not in a ranking or a salary, but in your heart. You will find your success only in realising goals based on your own true dreams.
Find your passion and never let anyone dissuade you from realising it. The biggest challenge one faces in high school is in determining your true path and goals, not in their realisation. The only thing you should fear as you embark on the VCE is the fear of being yourselves. Be true. Grab life with both hands and live it, and let the VCE be but one of your successes in a wonderful 10 months."