"Good" brainwashing is the reasoned explanation of the rights of man and citizen. Do not infringe others, otherwise do whatever you want.
"Bad" brainwashing is when you infringe on the rights of your children. You curb their free will by telling them what god to believe in (no religious freedom), by telling them what to do and wear (no free choice), etc.
There is a degree of reasonableness. This is a feeble attempt to draw attention away from the fact taht you have finally acknowledged that the burqa is nothing more than artful brainwashing.
The forcing of the burqa on women is sick, disgusting, and a complete a violation of their human rights.
So you've decided what is 'good' and what is 'bad'. Clearly you are a moral authority above all others on this planet. Clearly I cannot hope to argue with you, because you know what is good and what is bad, what is right and what is wrong.
I have NOT acknowledged that it is brainwashing. I have only acknowledged that what some would call instilling belief in G-d is what others would call brainwashing, IMO incorrectly.
I have not decided what is good or bad. Logic has. You can clearly make the argument from logic that society expects you to not infringe on the rights of others. Therefore it is perfectly valid for parents to teach this to their children as they grow up, so that they can become functioning members of society.
What you cannot argue from logic, is that it is right to brainwash your children into believing in
your god, as that is an extremely personal philosophy that ideally
should be arrived at by an autonomously thinking adult. Not a vulnerable, susceptible child whose only 'choice' is to trust their primary caregivers implicitly.
In a fair, and just society, you should make available to your children all religions, including non-religion (atheism) and agnosticism, and then let them decide. Unfortunately, parents realised many moons ago that if you truly gave your child the right to decide, they would actually
shock and
horror make their own choice about matters which affect their lives...
I am comforted by the shift to secularism. Because each day, more and more people come to this realisation that religion is of the self, and not something to force upon others. Religion is what you believe, and if you truly loved your children, you'd let them decide for themselves and love them all the same.
But ultimately, as I harken back to my previous post, many of us are still so insecure about our place in the universe, that religion is all they have to cling to in the desperate scramble for answers... and when that insecurity is exposed, that is when the abuses happen.