8 a) find the equation of the tangent to the curve y=x^3-9x^2+20x-8 at the point(1,4)
b) at what points of the curve is the tangent parallel to the line 4x+y-3=0
I don't mean any offence here, just trying to help you understand this stuff better, but I think you need to look back at the theory. The questions you're asking for help with are kind of starting to be pretty similar. Just doing questions over and over and not learning much isn't going to help - go back to the theory and try to get your head around it. I reckon the Khan Academy videos are top notch for explaining calculus - I strongly suggest you take a look at them.
8a. The question is asking for the equation of the derivative when x=1

happens to equal 4 when x=1 (1,4)
Find dy/dx (

)
Sub in x=1
8b. Parallel means the gradients will be equal.

, rearrange to y=mx+c and find the gradient.
Use the derivative of the curve you found in part a and set it equal to the gradient of the line 4x+y-3=0
Solve for x.
Sub this x co-ordinate into the original curve (

) to find the y co-ordinate.