'Nothing is worth belonging to at the expense of our identity'
In modern society, we are constantly bombarded with conflicting messages, contradicting demands and confounding principles. They constantly tell us to belong but dont lose the ability to think for yoursef. Be individual but dont be overly eccentric. We each have an identity however, which defines who we are. It is a self representation of our individual interests, relationships, morals and social activity and while it is commonly said within society it is far braver to be the one to stand while everyone is sitting, many can not adhere to this mentality. Every one of us yearns to belong because of an innate desire from within no matter what the group. Thomas Merton once said that 'happiness is not a matter of intensity but a of balance, order, rhythm and harmony'. Thus, it is fair to say that happiness, both with one's self and world comes with a balance between indviduality and belonging.