I've always wondered why this thread is so active compared to the Further thread when twice as many people do Further.
Honestly, it's probably because AN is aimed at high achievers, and you'll see more high achievers doing methods than you'll find them doing further. Namely because these are the kind of people who were switched on in early high school, and are in a position to do methods. (in fact, to memory 2/12 of the 90+s in my school didn't do methods.) However, we still have plenty of help going towards the further threads if anybody does come on who wants help with further.
How do you go about learning things in methods in terms of conceptual understanding and getting solid ideas of things
Don't just spam questions, and don't just rote-learn formula and constantly apply them until you think you know what you're doing. Learn why things work. Why does a graph go up when the derivative is positive? Why can't we do (a+b)^2=a^2+b^2? Why does b^0=1 (for b=/=0)?
All maths classes are assumed to be learning a bunch of formula and knowing where to apply them - it's not. Mathematics is a beautiful language, and takings a maths subject should be seen as doing a LOTE. Sure, you COULD get by and do averagely by learning a bunch of different words (formula), but you're more likely to do well if you actually learned appropriate grammar and sentence structures (why things work and such).