Generally speaking, I think one cause for this forum's perceived cultural faults is the fact that written communication eliminates a lot of emotion, body language, tonal expression, etc. At some level, the result of this is that statements which are not necessarily designed to incense others are interpreted as such. Another, perhaps more serious result, however, is that people also don't see people's emotional reactions to what they're saying; without physical interaction, the humanity of the conversation is lost, and people too easily write things without thinking of how people are actually interpreting what they're saying; the significance of others' feelings is lost. I know this sounds wanky and everything, but hopefully the point I'm trying to make is comprehensible here.
You look like the biggest immature jerks when you do it, and you're the admins of this forums. I could imagine it being pretty scary for new members who want to voice their opinion but are scared of the ban stick.
Hey Mr Hyperbole, name one person that has been banned just because they disagreed with me or enwiabe
Nina, you know I love you and all, but honestly I think this is probably an example of unnecessary name calling within the context of debate (and also an easily misinterpretable message, in relation to tone/intent). Perhaps try reading the message from a random third person observer's perspective; hopefully you can see that even if you didn't intend it, the statement comes across as perhaps a bit antagonistic and intimidating. =/