And I don't care if you're playing devil's advocate. What you said is morally reprehensible in any scenario and is tantamount to hatespeech.
Okay, it seems I have missed one of your edits, allow me to clarify myself:
I don't know how you can look any homosexual friends of yours in the face, or live with yourself, and say such a disgusting thing. Really, pi? You're honestly going to claim that they've "sadly let [the catholic church down]", just because they didn't kowtow to this fucking absurd dictum to give up their sexual orientation. Something which harms nobody, and lets them live a full and loving life.
That is the sort of disgusting victim-blaming that causes homosexuals to become depressed and commit suicide because of how society views them.
Firstly, let me reaffirm that in no way do the Africans deserve AIDS (or any bad thing for that matter), and I never once put forth a supporting statement for the Catholic Church in allowing it to spread as it has. So if I have committed hatespeech, I sincerely apologise, I am not a racist and as a medical student, I fully understand the pain that homosexuals have gone through, and are going through in regards to mental illness and stigmatisation. And I don't agree with it on a personal note.
However, the point I was trying to make is that not ALL the responsibility of the AIDS crisis falls upon the Church. There ARE CONFOUNDING FACTORS, a point that I've made in my first reply and have been consistent with throughout this debate. In this case, the confounding factor is the inability of humanity to avoid temptation. They knew of the consequences of unprotected sex and still went ahead and took the risk.
So, I'm not saying the Church is infallible. It's not. And in my first reply I said no religious institution is without it's flaws. The Church's ethics are without question horrendous, they have essentially blackmailed the population into their teachings. BUT, had their instruction (and THIS is religion) been followed, none of this would have happened. BUT because humanity isn't like that, and of course it's never going to work out to what the Church simplistically hoped for, the crisis is what is today.
This is from IRC, and clarifies my stance a bit further (I'll leave it as anonymous):
<> i thought his point was that humanity 'let them down' by not being abstinent when they had hiv
<> not by being gay. that's an inference
<> what do you call it when you attribute a position to your opponent which they don't actually hold, in order to make it more easy to refute them? oh yeah, straw man
<>the church was wrong to try to prevent condom use when they knew it would do good. but they were right to advise abstinence for people - of either gender and any sexual orientation - who were hiv positive
<> just because it was ultimately ineffective, doesn't mean it wasn't sound advice
Both are partly at fault and no-one deserved anything. I don't think it's possible to say who's more at fault either unless we go into "what if"s again.
I will stop to argue this from here, as I find that continuing to defend the Church in this regard goes against my own moral code (in fact my last few posts have, but I was trying to facilitate debate somewhat).