Well...the positive terminal is also analogous to the sign designation for batteries as well.
Personally, if I had to describe the shape of propene, I'd say that carbon 1 has trigonal planar geometry, carbon 2 has trigonal planar geometry and carbon 3 is tetrahedral (propene is CH2=CHCH3), and the carbon skeleton is trigonal planar.
Resonance occurs whenever you can write a second equally valid Lewis structure where the only difference between the two structures is a shift in electron density (a distinction must be made between resonance, where the resonance forms are only an average of reality, and tautomerism, where the difference forms both exist separately and the compound actually shifts between the forms). It is common with double bonds and formal charges, yes. However, they can occur with triple bonds too

just try N2O. You can have N=N=O or N=-N-O.
You don't need to know resonance for VCE.
For two elements to form a double bond, their orbitals must be of similar energy and size. Silicon is a fair bit larger than oxygen, so generally Si=O does not form.