To be honest, the commercial ones are more specific in their questions - they get into much detail, but if you know that detail, then it's just a matter of putting it down on paper. Whereas VCAA sometimes are too vague I believe.. I don't know, but I think commercial ones are just a bit easier than VCAA (my opinion, please don't be disheartened). On my first VCAA one 2006 for U3 I got 60/75 which actually got me pretty depressed.. But hopefully through time we can improve. But keep in mind doing the old exams prior to 2013 are the old study design........ xD
Which commercial ones have you done so far?
Remember that you're targeting towards VCAA at the end, so it's your be-all and end-all not commercial exams. VCAA does NOT expect you to know all the detail other ones do, because they're beyond the scope of the course. Of course, VCAA throws in those few random tricky ones to catch out the lazy peeps like me

I always took commercial exams with a tablespoonful of salt, though - I didn't love them because their answers weren't always great, and the most important thing to me was how VCAA expressed stuff. Plus if they felt a bit beyond the course, I'd just ignore the question

I honestly attribute my lower stress levels during year 12 to the fact that I really focused on picking out the minimum to learn and learnt that, while everyone else got caught up in the unnecessary details. OK, really bad way to look at education, but honestly it works. I have limited brain space ==> I fill it efficiently.
Anyway, head up, you WILL improve as long as you keep noting down all the things you're doing wrong or the info you're missing, and focus on learning that and fixing that up next time. That's the whole reason you're doing it after all.