And why do I seem to spend more time taking gap years than, well, filled years? ::)
The quote that's maybe influenced me most is this famous (and truly thrilling) fragment of poetry:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--
I took the one less travelled by,
And that has made all the difference.
I guess I’ve never wanted to do things the normal, the boring, the default, the zombie way. That’s why I’ve taken gap years, that’s why I wondered (wonder) if I’ll ever go to uni, that’s why I’ve always had this kind of thrilling pull towards ‘the great unknown’, because… well… who knows what you’ll be able to discover and achieve? Where you’ll be able to go? Who you’ll be able to become?
So my second drive has always been growth, learning, seeing the world in a new way, adding new puzzle pieces to my limited picture of the world, developing myself, pushing myself to find new experiences and views, and taking initiative to change things and learn things from everyone I meet. And I guess if you actually go and open yourself up to really search for new ideas, then a gap year of exploration, trial and error, thought, planning, self-teaching, work, travelling and volunteering can be awesome.
From gap year #1, in practical terms, I’m involved in AN and VCE and various projects when I wouldn’t otherwise be, but in personal terms, interacting with this group of people and the related world and study has completely broadened and deepened myself and my view of life, which has had a disproportionately large flow-on effect. Gap year #2… well… who knows! I might volunteer, I might head overseas alone, I might start a business, I might sit and eat pancakes while trolling on BoS.