Sorry for the multiple posts. I had to post them separately because it exceeded the maximum size.
First, let's find the gradient of PQ. That's going to be
}{a(p-q)}=p+q)
By difference of two squares and cancelling common terms. What does this tell us? p+q is a constant value. Not sure how this helps us yet; let's find out.
We want the locus of N, which has co-ordinates
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Hmm, actually, looks like you basically solved it! We want to show that it is a normal to the parabola. So, let's find the derivative.

by rearranging the original equation. At the point x=2km

Therefore, the negative reciprocal (normal) will be -a/km, which is the gradient you found in your working! Does that make sense? A bit of a weird, all over the place question. I'm in a rush so I hope this answer makes sense; if someone else wants to elaborate, feel free to!