I was wondering if you could read my Creative piece and give me some pointers on how to improve it as well as whether it is adaptable to a any HSC stimulus. Thank you!!
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What would you do if you had a blank slate, a fresh start, and no-one expecting anything in particular of you? If you knew your friends, family and those who you admire were guaranteed to be impressed and encouraging?
First off, it sounds like there’s a catch...and of course there is, what did you expect? And secondly, are you disappointed?
But fret not! The domineering influence of expectation has always been widespread. Our actions are often swayed by what others think we should and should not do. Expectations will continue to be - because, by human nature, we all naturally and instinctively carry judgement and hence, live in a complex society in which WE are being constantly judged by others. When we reach expectations already set out for us, we are rewarded and when we do not, we are punished - we may not know it, but others sure are thinking it.
Expectation initially presents itself as an external force that drives meaning, order and prosperity - especially for those who favour the thoughts of others, which would rightfully include you, dear reader, otherwise, what would be the mystery that lies behind your ever-presence?
Hardly groundbreaking for you, but expectation is a demanding god. Speak ill of the god of expectation and others will speak ill of you. This is often best justified in many studies that there is a strong correlation with the development of self-efficacy and the attitudes and beliefs of others. In schools, excellence in achievement tends to be influenced by high parental and cultural expectations. At the workplace, performance is influenced by the presence of a manager. In sporting teams, the expectations of a coach in, perhaps the intensity and frequency of training, can influence success at the big game.
It is therefore, not unworldly to say that expectations are often associated with positive outcomes, success and excellence. However, outcomes such as these are treated as limited resource. One where competition is central, one where only the fittest will reign supreme and one where survival within society is key this way. There is general acceptance within society that not everybody can excel yet still, these expectations are apparent. Not everybody can become an athlete, just as not everybody can be tall - otherwise, there would be no distinction of being so. Indeed, if to excel means to ‘stand out’ from the crowd, then by definition, only some can excel.
So it seems that the god of expectation should be our ally as it provides countless benefits of fame, success and most of all, the respect of others - but only after achieving what a small proportion of our society is able to. Talk about unrealistic standards!
Often, expectations and reality are ridiculed for the sake of comedy - but, what they truly showcase is that expectations are warped ideas of a reality. After all, they are abstract, vague concepts that we choose to put faith in. No? Too rich and embarrassing an image? Would you prefer me to define expectation by what it does, rather than by what it is?
However, often many cross the line between living up to expectations and a loss of oneself.
Let’s try another way. Consider this - with a sense of prosperity gained, is a true sense of happiness achieved? You may (and probably have) followed expectations all your life and achieved what the world approves of - climbing the corporate ladder, going to university and getting a degree, not wearing that mini skirt you’ve always wanted to wear, starving yourself to become the ‘perfect’ body shape perceived in the media, giving the press what they want to hear and not what you want to say - roll up, roll up, witness the almighty power of the god of expectation.
So with these expectations come the pressures, the anxiety and ultimately, the fear of not being able to fulfil them. Sometimes, in an effort to impress those who have burdened us, we often try to exceed their conjectures and do more than we are promised. We get tied up in knots about how best to rise up to the challenge set before us, that we often forget about what’s truly important - ourselves.
You see, when you spend most of your time running around obsessed with the idea of being loved and approved by others, wearing all kinds of masks and costumes based on the role you are expected to be playing, not only should you be recognised as an accredited actor...but you begin to lose yourself. You get lost in the crowd, becoming one of the millions, if not billions, of people who have no idea who they are and what they stand for - just a side effect to the addictive drug of expectation.
In the end, who are we to blame? The baby boomers for enforcing their teachings? God himself, for crafting judgement into the essence of human nature? No. We are only to blame ourselves.
After all, we all know that kid who would always sit at the back of the class, doodling till no end. He did not care the slightest about the world around him, and frankly, nor the world to him after some time.
But now you do. Being disappointed, you admire him. I mean, what did you expect?