No worries - really good to see you. 
Super interesting what you say about the ATAR being a blessing in disguise; do you think its importance, overall, is overhyped?
aw thanks

and no I don't, I still think it's very important in terms of opening a lot of doors if yours is 'good enough'. I have mixed feelings about the ATAR in terms of it being an indicator of performance at university though -- I know people who got ATARs far better than mine who have unfortunately failed multiple subjects at uni, but I also know people who received <20 and rightfully so because they wouldn't be able to cope with uni. However for every person like I just described, there's someone who's VCE didn't work out and they end up doing great things.
The ATAR isn't everything imo as your mindset after finishing school/your determination to achieve your goals, not a number, will follow you forever. That's why I think a 99 ATAR is brilliant for someone who is self-motivated, but useless for someone who was pushed & prodded by their parents through school with little personal development or desire to achieve for themselves rather than to impress others.
tl;dr: your strength of character is worth more than an ATAR, but a high ATAR is still worth a lot