1) How do you balance uni work and real life/how do you maintain good grades in a gruelling course like yours?
Well firstly I don't claim to have amazing grades haha. With the risk of sounding like an ungrateful humblebraggart, my grades do put me in the top quartile of my year, but they probably should have been a bit better if I did a few things differently over the years. So my grades are *ok*, but certainly not amazing by any definition
I think the most important things in uni are the following (not sure how many are specifically relevant to you!):
1) Find a study strategy that works for you. I kid you not, but it took me 3 semesters to find what worked for me, especially because I was so lackadaisical in my approach to VCE. I tried making lecture summaries, tried reading textbooks, tried hand-writing notes, tried annotating lecture slides, tried flash cards, etc. In the end I found something that worked for me, and it made the rest of the years much easier. I think a lot of people get worried that they haven't acclimatised to uni as easily as the next person, and that's understandable, but it's really /ok/ to be lost for a year or so. As long as you keep at it, it will work out eventually, and life becomes considerably easier.
2) Take breaks when you need to and have mandatory days off. As I said earlier in this thread, I took Fridays off. Even when times got tough, I made it my time to do everything non-academic. I found that to be a good chance to assess where I was, reflect on what happened in the week, and take my mind elsewhere. Recharging your batteries is important.
3) Hate to harp on about this, but I found reflecting on stuff really helps. If I just sat an exam, I'd think about it afterwards. Why didn't I know the answer to Question 12 or 23, what went wrong. Why did it go wrong. How can I not make that mistake again. I accept I'll never be perfect or the best, I know that, but that doesn't mean I can't be better. Just taking some time out to think about how I can be better is helpful.
4) Have regular social events and/or chats. During third year I had a 21st or two on every weekend - that was great, plenty of time to catch up with people on a regular basis and do something non-academic. In other years... there aren't many 'organised' social gatherings to bring the squad together. So some initiative is good. One thing I find to be useful and great, is to have friends who don't do what I do. I have a great group of mates, who I actually met on AN years ago, that do all sorts of non-med courses (or rather, 'did', as some have graduated), and we meet up regularly and chat on a fb group chat daily. Having a broader group of friends is good because it forces me to not talk about my course. The last thing I want to do after a long day of study is talk to mates who want to talk about studying... Legit that's the worst thing. I 'use' socialising as a chance to have some fun that's completely unrelated to med, and I think that helps balancing things.
5) I'm a big fan of 'knowledge > grades'. I'm happy if I can back myself to know things, if that translates into decent grades then that's fantastic, but grades are secondary to be becoming a knowledgeable and safe doctor. Perhaps it's hard not to have an eye on grades if seeking graduate-entry courses that need high GPAs/WAMs, but I think it takes a lot of the pressure off if you don't focus on it. I came into my course knowing that I was in the bottom 25%, so from the outset I knew that working my way up was going to be hard, heck it could be impossible for me to keep up with all these VCE beasts around me. So why not just enjoy the fact that I'm here and enjoy learning cool new things? That's my philosophy to studying in uni
Not sure if any of that answered your question haha
2) Would you try to dissuade someone from pursuing medicine, and if so, why?
Wouldn't dissuade, but I'd warn people of the following: it's hard and is getting harder. Getting into med is the easy part, graduating is a little harder, the hard part is when you're a doctor. The number of consultant/boss jobs aren't increasing despite the fact that the number of medical graduates has been increasing at an alarming rate for the past two decades. This means we have a bottle neck, and not enough senior jobs for junior doctors. This is a disaster because doctors aren't trained to be anything else, we're not like commerce grads who have skills in multiple areas, we literally have no other skills. The vast majority don't even have proper research skills. So be warned of the career prospects, you might have a job for the first few years out of uni, but don't expect that to be the case for long. There's a fantasy many have of med being a 'sure thing' once you get in, that is what it is - a fantasy. It couldn't be further form the truth. Know what you're signing up for, because in 10-15 years time, it could be Centrelink benefits.
3) If you couldn't be a doctor because you didn't get into the course or some other reason, which career would you pursue that would be equally as fulfilling?
My back-up uni course was Biomed/Engineering. If I didn't get into graduate-entry med, I'd probably continue the path of becoming some sort of engineer. I've always had a passion, but perhaps not much talent, for maths. So I think I'd enjoy engineering. Whether it would be equally fulfilling? I'm sure it would be, albeit in different ways. I'd say nearly every career has their dull and their fulfilling moments, even lawyers!