Be a nicer person and not a bitch
And a really lame one...
get good marks in Uni (lol like that will happen)
I used to be a little bit of a bitch too and also found it hard to be nice haha. There's so much emphasis in society for you to be 'genuine', and sometimes (well most of the time) we take it the wrong way and trust every bit of our emotions no matter how irrational and say very callous things which upon reflection we may not truly believe.
A quick fix for this is to realise everyone's at a different stage in life, and that in the larger scheme of things we don't take up such a large portion of that person's life, so we don't really deserve so much time from their life to preoccupy them with our own unhelpful actions. Better be polite and accommodating of the person's shortcomings, if you know for certain that what you find difficult with them isn't at all to the detriment of another or to themselves.
Compromise does wonders. But of course, you should never compromise at the expense of your own wellbeing.
