first of all, this post has been difficult to write so i hope that you will respect me for sharing my views as i have with y'all
I do respect the views of others, but it does annoy me when people refuse to engage with other people's views (but still like to argue and assert their points), continue asserting the same responses ignoring the context provided in other people's arguments and back away from their responses/become unresponsive when people answer their questions in a way that doesn't follow their hypothesis. People are actively trying to respectfully engage with them, but that isn't reciprocated unfortunately, and thus people are not able to understand their views (which I'm genuinely interested in, especially when it is different from mine).
okay, I don't know if you're referring to me here, but i have been engaging with others' views thank you very much

i just haven't quoted them. and yes, i am allowed to introduce new arguments can i not?
(also don't have time to read word for word every single comment)
You have a couple of loaded assumptions in your argument:
a) You yourself have self-created and perpetuated the stereotype that if a girl is employed, gender is a factor
b) A woman probably isn't as competent as a man
c) Women and men are considered on an equal playing field with employers (in the fields of interest) and are perceived in the same way
d) Women would be stealing jobs from men
a) I did not load this assumption in my argument at all. but we cannot deny that in some places they are 'required' to have a certain number of women.
b) where did I say this? I literally said right below that some women are more competent than men. it was probably an assumption by many dating back a century or so that women couldn't do things that men could, but I never implied this right now!!
c) well they should be on an equal playing field. ofc you can't change an individual's bias but having forced equal representation/quotas and such do not help and doesn't help employers move past the bias
d) well, if a company had to hire more women to reach a certain number, some men could be missing out. i didn't necessarily use the word 'steal' or imply it in a strong sense
I'll start with d), and consider it in two parts, 1) How will this be done (taking off from EEEEEEP’s weird logic that politicians and engineers would be fired)?
Quotas or incentives doesn’t result in anyone being fired. Gender balance isn’t an overnight result, it happens overtime when you employ more women into engineering and corporate graduate positions and the skewed percentages evens out after a while. This doesn’t involve firing anyone. As for politics, a career as a politician isn’t designed to be a stable job, an entitlement or a lifelong career. People get careers in politics and manage to stay in it, because they are backed by certain factions and have the right connections within the party at a certain point in time. A person from the same party can challenge the current member in a seat (as Bill Shorten and Malcolm Turnbull did in their respective seats) if they feel that they have the factional and party membership backing. Sexism and the toxic culture which surrounds is often more explicit and prevalent in party factions (in both left and right-wing parties) and the membership base where the ‘old boys club’ culture persist, which prevents female candidates from being supported and nominated in the first place.
EEEEEEP can reply to this if he wants to, but I did not use his logic in addressing my arguments
I won't try and argue on his behalf but I understand what he is trying to say if you're all about forced equal representation
i won't deny that there is sexism in political parties. but why would you want to be associated with a 'sexist' political party? sure, you might say the only way of getting elected is by being a member of the lib/lab parties but why would you run for that party if you don't believe in their views then?
also gillard had alot of male supporters re the whole rudd/gillard drama
yes, i am not very knowledgable on the inside workings of political parties, so i am interested in being enlightened more in this area
I never said politicians or engineers or anyone would need to be fired.say if there are some more jobs, openings/spaces in a company available, then some of those spaces would 'have' to go to women to reach a quota.
The second part, How do guys feel?:
Obviously I’m not a guy, but I am in a few traditionally male-dominated areas. I am a Physics major at uni (as well as a Neuroscience and Philosophy triple), doing a long-term internship at a prominent economics/international politics/societal issues/science magazine, am involved in the university debating society and hoping to train as a Neurologist. I haven’t faced salty men in my fields, and have the support of my debating society’s presidents (who are both male) and got of mentorship at the magazine (mentors and editors are all male). At the Australian and Australasian Intervarsities (which I’ll be attending in July), all university contingents have to be composed of at least 1/3 female/non-cis male in both the debating and adjudicating components. My university’s contingent is about 40-60% female at all recent major tournaments, so the quotas didn’t affect the selection of men. Over-time the representation of females increased due to the greater incentive, encourage and training resources and the fact that selectors are more open to selecting women because they have been exposed to great female debaters through the use of quotas. I’ve never encountered a salty guy in the contingent.
First of all, good job on your internships and debating success
That's good the men aren't salty, because I hope you got those positions based on your merit and hard work. If you did, then they shouldn't be salty at all
In the first place (tackling assumptions b) and c) ), women and men in certain fields aren’t even considered on equal footing in employment in certain fields, due to the implicit biases about perceived competency, maternity leave discrimination, lack of exposure in the mainstream that I discussed a few posts ago (you should have read it). You should be asking “How does a women feel?”. The opposite of what you are suggesting is happening, that a women has to appear perfect and be exceptional of be on the corporate executive board, high flying consulting or engineering firm. Quotas are meant to tackle the implicit biases and maternity leave discrimination and provide greater exposure to employers about the abilities of females.
are you referring to
this post that you wrote?
i do believe that there are
somemany women who are more competent than men in some places, and have gotten jobs over men due to their competency and not their gender
in regarding how does a woman feel? i am a woman, and i know how i feel. i know how i feel may be different to how you feel, but yeah. i am not a male so that is why i asked how men feel, as i do not know what it's like to be a man.
in reply to the linked post, i will say this: there are many competent, capable women in australian politics right now who we can look up to

(obviously your opinion may differ depending on your political views and what you define as 'competent') e.g. julie bishop, kelly o'dwyer, penny wong, tanya plibersek, kate ellis, larissa waters, pauline hanson, jacqui lambie etc. list goes on
As for politics, people vote in two ways. Firstly, based on the party (nothing wrong with that since broad ideology and overall outcomes are important). As I mentioned before, the explicit sexism and toxic culture in party factions, membership base and well as in feeder areas like trade unions, the IPA and student politics (which are important platforms), prevent many women from being preselected, nominated and supported by the party factions in the first place. The second way people vote, is based on the person, where subconscious and unconscious biases play a major factor, which I discussed in detail a few posts ago. Only a minority of voters actually read policy manifestos, analysis and do fact-checking.
yeah, there are many ways citizens vote which I do agree with you. our voting system may not be perfect, but after all, it is up to individual voters themselves to look up the individual candidates and their party manifestos
that being said, i very well respect your views

and i wish you much success in life
i also respect anyone with differing views and am willing to keep the discussions civil

(also I would like to know if I am wrong/misinformed anywhere, not being sarcastic, because I know I can be stubborn

)
to close it off, i believe being a woman should be no barrier to doing what you want to do

be your own inspiration
Moderator Edit [Aaron]: Removed personal remark