For the first question, when you say that the stationary object does not move, you do not mention if the original object moves at all. In general, this would be an inelastic collision, since the kinetic energy is lost in sound and heat.
For the second question, the sound produced will stop this being an elastic collision. If you think in terms of billiard balls, the balls will slow down due to the friction on the table, but there is a small amount of sound as they collide. This is what will always make this an inelastic collision.
In the case of your last point, the 50J energy has gone to sound, and also into the ball and the ground as you say, but there is almost always some bounce back. The movement of the particles to absorb the energy, and the sound produced will rarely take up the whole energy, but as a whole, your statement is correct, I believe. ;P