This is very tricky. You guys are talking about three different topics at once... But let me try to clear up some things.
But out of curiosity, say you have 1M NaCl, 1L of it is in a beaker and you add 1L of Ethanol, does that change the concentration of NaCl?
While your here Thushan and before this gets lost, do you have any ideas on this?
Firstly, salt is sparingly soluble in ethanol (~0.01 M). Literature suggest in a 50:50 mixture of water/ethanol, the solubility of NaCl may be as high as ~0.1M
The definition of 'concentration' is relative. In a system, you would define something as the solvent, and something as the solute. The concentration would thus be the amount of solute per amount of solvent. If you wish to define the 50:50 mixture of water/ethanol as the solvent, then you can certainly calculate NaCl concentration from that. (In the hypothetical case, it will be 0.5M.)
We generally define water as the solvent, so concentrations of aqueous solutions are quite standard. Due to various changes to density upon mixing solvents, this stops being so clear cut.
When we talk about dissolution, we generally mean small amounts of solute dissolving in large amounts of solvent.
When you talk about mixing 1L of water with 1L of ethanol, you are more talking about the
miscibility of the two solvents. The situation gets much more complex.
What about activity?
When I mentioned to Thushan before that activity of pure liquids is only approximately 1, I had this in mind.
Activity of water in dilute aqueous solutions is approximately 1, because it is constantly colliding with the solute.
When we change the solvent to 50:50 water:ethanol, the activity of water will not be 1. It will be quite different, because the solute will no longer be constantly colliding with water. It is quite difficult to predict what this activity will be.
Also,

. In fact,

. Each species have a different constant of proportionality (called activity coefficient), but it is a constant nonetheless. This means the concentration quotient is simply a scaled version of the activity quotient (the real equilibrium constant), and so for convenience sake we just use the concentration quotient.


Note that this equation is only valid for working out the 'molar density' of pure solvents.
I am tired. I will write a more coherent explanation tomorrow.