Why do women cave under pressure?

[flusher317]

I'm not saying that if the man backs down he's a pussy. I respect that also. I think many times it would be so much smarter to back off. THe point i was making, was to NOT protect his girlfriend. That would make him a pussy. Wouldn't you agree?
I'm not saying that's all males are, or thats all females are! We are all a lot more than our sexual essence too! There's so much more to every single one of us. And also there is masculine in both males and females just as fem in both also. And a person wouldn't be whole if he or she couldn't access the other resources that's within the person. I mean, if I have been all masculine in this thread, you probably wouldn't be listening to me. I wouldn't be able to connect with you. I'm only generalising this aspect of life because it is just another mould that we all fit into. Just another way of seeing life thru. another filter to understand our behaviour.
most ppl don't understanding this polarity, and therefore cannot find or keep the passion in their love life.

There are lots of males who are extremely feminine, and lots of females who are masculine predominently. I'm not saying all males are masc, far from it in fact. For a gay couple to have passion, one has to be more masc than the other, and one more fem. does that make sense? It is very similar to a hetero r/s. I mean, btw a male/female, if both are masculine, than there will not be much passion! It's the science of polarity. They can be great friends and love each other, but they won't be IN LOVE!

To live as a whole, we all need to have access to the other parts of us. I consider myself extremely masculine but a lot of times i am also feminine, when the situation calls for it. I don't live in femininity, because it isn't naturally where I belong!

[ninwa]

I mean, btw a male/female, if both are masculine, than there will not be much passion!

Why not?

I'm still not really understanding where all this is coming from.

I'm also quite offended by your 10th point of "femininity" that a woman wants to be "owned" .......... Middle Ages much? lol

[flusher317]

Ninwa, have read all my posts and have all of them made much sense to you?
i'm not saying you want to be owned. so don't be offended, im not challenging your feminism. I can't see you so i can't really tell how femininine you are.
I would love to have a conversation to you about this, but over this forum it is slightly harder to communicate. 93% of communication is non-verbal, so we're at a big disadvantage!
Tell me a little about yourself if you do'nt mind, and maybe we can work out where all of this fits into you. You can send me an email if you prefer not to openly write about yourself on this forum. email add [email protected]