Hey guys you seem to know your stuff, I want to get started lifting basically for both aesthetics and for general strength for things like self-defense etc.
I'm 17, about 175cm(I think...) and weigh about 65kg. I'm pretty fit but have slacked off a bit lately since I've given up footy and cricket (I'm really injury prone, I've taken up golf now haha) I'm probably carrying about 5 kg excess but still in reasonable shape.
Um, I can't really tell you how much I can bench/squat etc because I don't know, all I can say is that I can do ~50 pushups. I eat loads but my nutrition is good, I can't remember the last time i had take-away or confectionary/junk and I like meat and salad.
I think we have some dumbbells in our shed and my dad has one of those all-in one machines but I'd rather not use that because it's in his office.
I guess one consideration is that my shoulders are dodgy (hypermobile joints) and get quite painful, but they are getting a bit better.
I think that's about all the information I can give haha

TL;DR - help a noob get started lifting.