Chasej, you have not answered my points. We are just talking past each other.
I am leaving this debate because I've said all I want to.
For anyone who has happened to read this. I would like to say, if I were in charge of the world, equality and destruction of a 'patriarchal society' would be at the top of my agenda. The only thing I am arguing is what this would actually end up looking like, and more importantly how we should go about achieving it. I find a lot of traditional feminist thoughts to be ideological and speculative and I don't agree with them being the best route to achieving equality.
I think the patriarchal society is a lot more organic and symptomatic of our fundamental values and attitudes than a construct of what people think. And there are some profound fundamental changes in the attitudes of our species if we want to take away this patriarchal society. Namely, it is to recognise that women and men have different strengths, and that we cannot believe in 'fairness' in the traditional sense that we think of it and also achieve a truly egalitarian society.
Either way, I always advocate respect and compassion for all people, and if anyone felt offended in certain sections. I apologise.