If a,b,c are linearly dependent a=mb+nc can be established. m and n are constants
I will use the horizontal matrices for convenience
[4 1 3]=m [2 -1 3] + n [-4 2 6]
[4 1 3]= [2m -m 3m] + [-4n 2n 6n]
From this 3 equations can be derived
(1) 4=2m-4n
(2) 1= -m+2n
(3) 3=3m+6n
from (1) m=2+2n can be derived
If we substitute this m for (2)
1=-(2+2n) +2n
1=-2 -2n+2n
1=-2
This equation is not true and does not make sense
Therefore there are no solutions for m and n
therefore a,b,c are linearly independent
Hope this helps
For the purpose of completeness, I will slightly alter your statement. If
a = m
b + n
c for some scalar m and n, then the three vectors are linearly dependent. However, the converse is not necessarily true. The formal definition actually only requires that a linear combination of the vectors in consideration sum to zero. How is this different?
One definition of a dimension is the maximum number of linearly independent vectors. By definition you cannot present me 3 linearly independent vectors that exist in R
2 (try it). So, the three vectors 2i, i and j should be linearly independent. They are, because the first two are parallel, so 1(2i)+(-2)i + 0j = 0. However, you cannot write j as a sum of the other two.
Tl;dr, if you can write a as a linear combination of b and c, they must be linearly dependent. But that method won't find all the cases.