thank you to everyone for your replies I appreciate them, sorry that i'm not directly replying to everyone but I'd be saying the same thing
I'm going to keep trying to interact with people in tutes but in my experience it's been harder in lectures
hmm really?
idk, I feel some people are just cliquey and stuff but yeah...
yes
this is true. I've never experienced that so strongly at uni until this semester -- ALL of my tutes have cliques of people that all somehow know each other and I've never seen most of these people in my life lol
so it's a bit hard to infiltrate those kind of groups :/
I'm not looking for a social group because I think that's harder to get than just a few friends but what do you do when everyone is only keen on talking to their friends they already know? Understandable but it's so awkward for people on the outside
Do you know people from uni (even a little bit) at the moment?
not really, I used to because I actually made a few friends last year but those friendships cooled off when the semester ended and it would be extremely weird for me to contact them out of the blue now
Saying that though I did run into a friend from first semester of first year last semester and through her I got into contact with our mutual friend & they wanted to hang out etc but I had a lot of shit going on at the time and I couldn't so I probably looked like a snob BUT no that wasn't it, I suppose they'll never know that (we weren't close enough for me to explain)
I texted one of them (but it was like 6 weeks later oops) and I added her on snapchat when I saw her in my contacts but then as soon as she accepted me she posted on her story that she doesn't want to be friends with people who don't allocate her time or something? I know that could have been about anyone but since she didn't reply to my other message and she posted that I took it as being about me so I deleted her
and that was that
also ran into a friend from last year in a tute I wasn't meant to be in and we talked a bit but I got the vibe from her that she didn't want to hang out but it's ok I wasn't upset, I don't want to hang with me either TBH
I think it must have been easier to make friends in first year and I should have taken advantage of that because I didn't even make one friend last semester LOL
so tl;dr don't know anyone at the moment but I have one of my closest high school friends in one of my subjects (but not the same prac) so grateful for that, at least I see her in lectures