it calls cells in the bladder to die, thus causing diarhea
Uh? Wrong end?

With influenza giving diarrhoea, it's not a typical presentation, but if it does occur as diarrhoea can in a wide range of illnesses, it's probably just a result of an in-built defense mechanism that causes expulsion of any foreign material in the body upon feeling sick. Basically, the body knows it sick but it doesn't know exactly where, so it just starts removing everything it can through any orifice it can.
EDIT: The above is really just a gross oversimplification and the mechanisms at hand are obviously more complex. The pathology's outlined in
this article but I doubt any of that will make sense to you (barely makes sense to me). Basically though, infections which infect the entire body often lead to widespread release of cytokines which are chemicals secreted by the immune system to act on an infection. These cytokines have widespread effects throughout the body and one of these happens to be diarrhoea. But yeh, it's not well understood and there might be other mechanisms at hand.