Hmm... there has to be an easier way than this:
But basically I just worked out the two required components (or resolutes) c and d and then found the magnitudes of a, c and d and found that |a|*|d| = |c|^2
c = a - (unit(b) . a)*(unit(b)) ---> this is just the formula for finding a perpendicular component in direction of b.
c = 3i - 6j + 4k - ((2/3i + 1/3j - 2/3k) . 3i - 6j + 4k)*(2/3i + 1/3j - 2/3k)
c = 3i - 6j + 4k - (-8/3)*(2/3i + 1/3j - 2/3k)
c = 43/9i - 46/9j + 20/9k
...|c| = (sqrt(485))/3
...|c|^2 = 485/9
d = (unit(a) . c)*(unit(a)) ---> formula for finding parallel component in direction of a
d = (3/sqrt(61)i - 6/sqrt(61)j + 4/sqrt(61)k . 43/9i - 46/9j + 20/9k)*(3/sqrt(61)i - 6/sqrt(61)j + 4/sqrt(61)k)
d = ((485*sqrt(61))/549)*3/sqrt(61)i - 6/sqrt(61)j + 4/sqrt(61)k
d = 485/183i - 970/183j + 1940/549k
... |d| = (485*sqrt(61))/549
and |a| = sqrt(61)
... |a|*|d| = 485/9
= |c|^2 (as required)