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Lawn fertiliser contains ammonium ions (NH4+). A 1.234 g sample of lawn fertiliser was dissolved in water to make a 250.0 mL solution. A 20.00 mL aliquot of this solution was added to a flask containing 20.00 mL of 0.1022 M sodium hydroxide
solution. The flask was heated until the reaction:NH4 +(aq) + OH–(aq) → NH3(aq) + H2O(l) was complete. Excess sodium hydroxide in the resulting solution was titrated with 0.1132 M hydrochloric acid, using phenolphthalein as indicator. The end point was reached when 9.97 mL had been added. Calculate:
a the amount, in mol, of HCl used in the titration
b the amount of NaOH in excess after reaction with the fertiliser
c the amount of NaOH that reacted with the NH4+ ions
d the amount of NH4+ ions in the 1.234 g fertiliser sample
e the percentage by mass of nitrogen in the fertiliser, assuming nitrogen is only present as ammonium ions.
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I can do calculations/stoich etc etc....I just need someone to explain to me what's going on and how to use the 2 equations with the limiting and excess and all that shiz.