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I have a crush on someone and I need advice
« on: March 14, 2008, 09:43:59 pm »
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HEy everyone!  :)

I need advice....

I've been to uni for like about two weeks now and well...I have developed a crush on this person. I always look out for him in my lectures...he's sat next to me on some occassions!!! :smitten: :smitten:
 
Yeah, I've spoken to him on many occassions before and well, I feel awkward around him...I also feel that I'm running out of words everytiime I talk to him....he makes my heart flutter and my mind goes blank....

I think I've already dropped enough hints for him already but to me, it looks like he;s not responding.

I don't know...he's like the hottest thing I've ever seen....and I so love his personality...he acts sooo cute!!!..

I was just wondering, how do you go about showing your crush that you care (without explicitly saying to them that you like them because that would just be bad and if I did that, he might avoid me forever..NOOOOO)...

Yeah...some advice and hints on how to go about this would be muchly appreciated.  :)


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Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
« Reply #1 on: March 14, 2008, 09:56:37 pm »
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well two weeks is pretty fast.
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« Reply #2 on: March 14, 2008, 10:01:39 pm »
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Get a group of mates together to head out to the pub, pool hall, etc and then ask if he wants to come too.

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« Reply #3 on: March 14, 2008, 10:14:18 pm »
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Get a group of mates together to head out to the pub, pool hall, etc and then ask if he wants to come too.

Or just hang out somewhere during one of your breaks. Pretty much everyone i have met at uni i got to know during breaks

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Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
« Reply #4 on: March 14, 2008, 10:31:50 pm »
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i smell the dawn of a Love and Relationships sub forum




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Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
« Reply #5 on: March 14, 2008, 10:43:35 pm »
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I was going to... but you jinxed it.

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Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
« Reply #6 on: March 15, 2008, 12:23:11 am »
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kidnap him and put him in a sac, then continuously bash the sac until he speaks words of love to you, always works for me, guys and girls ;)

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Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
« Reply #7 on: March 15, 2008, 12:37:42 am »
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kidnap him and put him in a sac, then continuously bash the sac until he speaks words of love to you, always works for me, guys and girls ;)

You're the one she likes.

Don't worry, at least you'll feel all soft after getting tenderised.
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« Reply #8 on: March 15, 2008, 12:47:20 am »
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kidnap him and put him in a sac, then continuously bash the sac until he speaks words of love to you, always works for me, guys and girls ;)

The VCE system is affecting peoples ability to distinguish between a sack and a SAC

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Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
« Reply #9 on: March 15, 2008, 09:00:34 am »
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looool. I refer to sacs as BallSACS. :P



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Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
« Reply #10 on: March 15, 2008, 12:39:10 pm »
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Ok well I'll try to give you some advice here squance, um as others have mentioned a good way get him to know you better would be to start off by possibly having lunch or something together with a group of friends, and then maybe going out on the weekends, and then i'm sure he'll get the message sooner or later.. You don't want to come across as too desperate or something, if you cant be together at least be friends :) lol. Hope that helps a little. 

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Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
« Reply #11 on: March 15, 2008, 02:34:15 pm »
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Thanks!!!

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Re: I have a crush on someone and I need advice
« Reply #12 on: March 15, 2008, 09:51:05 pm »
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you're at uni, so what's better than after a lecture (when he sits next to you), ask him if he wants to go for coffee ;D

coffee always works :P
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« Reply #13 on: March 15, 2008, 11:23:53 pm »
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Yeah, I first had lunch with my to-be-girlfriend at union house. It was romantic... LOL, j/k, but it was heaps of fun :)

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« Reply #14 on: March 16, 2008, 12:43:42 am »
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squance why dont u tell ahmad that u feel this way? i mean theres no point going up in the clouds about it