1. The following equilibrium is established when solutions of

and

are mixed.
 + SCN^- (aq) \leftrightharpoons Fe(SCN)^{2-} (aq))

is colourless.

is colourless.
^{2-})
is deep red.
The solution is diluted with an equal volume of water. The colour becomes paler red, the addition of the water has caused "
concentration and the number of moles of
to decrease.[The bolded is the answer]
Now I understand this perfectly but it's just when I start to think more deeply (and perhaps more than I need to) that I get confused.
First is adding water will dilute the solution hence concentration of the entire solution decreases but shouldn't the system NOT partially oppose this change? Because the left hand side has 2 molecules but can't the right hand side also be considered to have 2 molecules? Since
^{2-})
is in (aq) it is the same as saying

(aq) and
^{4-})
(aq)? [Just like how in water

(aq) is the same as

(aq)

(aq) but it is just we are lazy so we don't need to write them separately?] So since there are the same number of molecules, the system would do nothing to oppose the change?
Secondly, how does the mole of
^{2-})
decrease? I know the concentration decreases because the solution is diluted by adding more water. So let

be the respective mol, concentration and volume of
^{2-})
when the water is not added. Now let

be the respective mol, concentration and volume of
^{2-})
when the water is added.
Looking

, the concentration is a number and

is the initial volume which again is a number, but once the water is added

decreases to
)
and

increases to
)
, so how do you determine whether now

is smaller than

or larger? You don't know how much

decrease or

increased so you can't find out whether the final mol is larger or smaller than the original?