Firstly, I'm really sorry to hear of what's happened Thush, like, I personally know that it's pretty tough on you personally not to mention tough on the girl as well. But good on you for being able to take care of yourself and remain strong during tough times, that's something which I really admire, but I hope you're feeling better now.
I generally think that arranged marriages aren't bad per se. Forced marriages are bad, but not arranged. Like, if we think about it, we all have to get to know our boyfriends/girlfriends from somewhere, whether it'd be through school or uni, or work, or through a friend's introduction...etc. Having our parents introduce us to a girl/guy isn't a bad thing at all. I think the point where it starts getting bad is when the parents pressure you into marrying a particular person.
However, if it's just an introduction then I would say that's not too bad. It depends where we draw the line though, different people will draw the line at different places, so it's a hard issue to really debate.